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Yep, as demonstrated by the other burning thread at the moment.
Does this mean I shouldn't attempt "teasing good natured affection" towards any persons of religious conviction?
If it helps they are welcome to (teasingly) refer to me as a Godless Heathen.
I'm also a confirmed atheist and don't like the recent tendency towards aggressive religion bashing.
It's too easy and it doesn't do those involved any credit at all. I blame that smartarse Richard Dawkins.
God has been dead for more than a century, what's the point of dancing on his grave?
Jeepers ( can I say that 🙂 ?)
I am sorry if "godbotherer" offended It was meant in the way Graham S heard it.
No offence intended. if I intend to offend there is little room left for doubt 🙂
Nick 1962 - point taken
Dragging things slightly more towards the original topic, I'm ambivalent towards marriage, but absolutely hate the industry which has sprung up around it.
I work with lots of young women who go on to get married, and the amount of social oneupmanship, the utter and total waste of money that occurs is stupifying.
These are women who earn £25 K ish a year, with potential husbands on similar amounts, who then go on to spend £15 K or so on one day.
I stand as a beacon of sense in a sea of financial stupidity at times, yet get called a cynic.....
These are women who earn £25 K ish a year, with potential husbands on similar amounts, who then go on to spend £15 K or so on one day.
Yep. Those people are mental in my opinion.
But they'd probably say the same about someone paying £1k+ for a push bike.
26 years here (+3 Years while Mrs S finished her degree, I dropped out and worked).
Eyepic +1
I stand as a beacon of sense in a sea of financial stupidity at times, yet get called a cynic.....
As someone pointed out you can get married for £40 and it grants you certain legal protections.
So the purely financial argument seems a little flawed. 🙂
[i]But they'd probably say the same about someone paying £1k+ for a push bike.[/i]
Ooooh no, they all know that for a decent bike you have to pay at least £800, but for something that you can upgrade and futureproof, you need to spend at least £1000. I'm not sitting there all night listening to how to match the bridesmaids shoes without making some contribution....
[i]So the purely financial argument seems a little flawed.[/i]
Seriously, I have listened to people costing the floral decorations for the centre of each table, for the cost of the shoes that the bridesmaids will wear, for the amount to spend on the brides underwear.
It's a massive racket, peddled to the gullible, who in turn accept the opportunity to throw away stupid sums of, often someone else money, on their 'special day'.
Then sit and moan 12-18 months down the line about how they can't afford anything since they got married.
Blimy - nip out for a wee nightride and come back to find three pages!
Great reading all the replies. Especially the happy-ending (well, so far!) stories. 🙂
5 years married. Or is it 6? I think it's 6. There's no question of any other eventuality for me and Mrs Grips, so why not get married? An excuse to get everyone together and have a good day 🙂
It's a massive racket, peddled to the gullible, who in turn accept the opportunity to throw away stupid sums of, often someone else money, on their 'special day'.
You are confusing 'getting married' with 'the wedding industry'. We got married. None of TJ's godbotherers in the room, a few people we really wanted to be there, a bus to the reception, a great meal (buffet, not served), a cake with smurf cake toppers, then a riproaring evening with more friends and a cake made of cheese.
A wonderful day, we organised it, we paid for it. Marriage works for some people and not for others. A bit like wearing a bike helmet or a neck brace.
My wife does 👿