im there to ensure my child has a balanced diet..
How are schools denying your child a balanced diet ?
[url= http://www.education.gov.uk/schools/pupilsupport/pastoralcare/a0075278/healthy-schools ]Schools play an important role in supporting the health and wellbeing of children and young people.[/url]
This country or a few individuals that the media loves to hype up about binge drinking culture
Just finishing off my post grad course and I can honestly say that 99% of students have that attitue. You can't go for a quiet pint. International drinking rules always apply. I have a borad range of friends but drinking excessively is the one thing they all share. Need a more EU approach for young people and drink but thats for a different thread.
I think the drinks fine at a school providing the parents are responisble with their consumption. It's a good role modeling if they don't all get sloshed but rather have just one pint and chat with all the other parents.
That's kind of my point. A parent taking kids to a pub lunch or attending events with alcohol is all good and well. These are normal places to come into contact with booze. It's our responsibility to educate our kids on the ways of the world. I take exception to the fact that my young children are around alcohol during school related events(twice within school time) with potentiality of either of us not being there.
Just because it raises cash or its from our local brewery, or everyone is well off and owns horses and drives nice cars and paints their window frames the same shade of dirty green Farrow & Ball does not make it acceptable to me. It's the same at kids parties these days; adults drinking wine from oversized glasses. What's wrong with tea?
|Im sorry this pisses me of so much, teachers are there to teach, im there to ensure my child has a balanced diet..
The reason they do this is because 30 x 10 years olds are impossible to teach if they've had a 500ml can of Rockstar for breakfast.
That's the whole point - they are there to teach - not to deal with kids who are medicated on caffeine, taurine and 3 types of sugar.
Well done to you because you wouldn't let this happen. Doesn't stop others and so they have to have rules. They also have a uniform. Does this impinge on your right to dress your child how you want? They also don't let the kids abuse teachers. Does this stop the creativity and freedom of expression?
Life has rules, normally for good reasons, we can't just do what we want 100% of the time. That's how society works. This is one of them and it works extremely well. They are an outstanding school in an area that falls into the bottom 1% of deprived areas in the UK. They know what they're doing.
Perhaps, for future reference, you could issue the school with a list of things that you do find acceptable. In fact, Mr Gove, why stop there? Why not provide the rest of society with 2 lists
1. Things I like, or find acceptable, that you are permitted to indulge in. Within reason.
2. Things I disapprove of, and are therefore verboten
Maybe you could carve them in tablets of stone and have them erected outside the school gates?
There's always some moaning pious tee-total git who wants to spoil the fun. Hic. đ
Kids should learn early that their parents are pillocks when pissed.
Mt yes at weddings, family parities etc. I guess there is an argument for a safe environment that has been risk assessed by the school to see such things!
I don't drink, but that's personal and not a judgement. Neither am I a prude or killjoy, my past is far from err... perfect.
I take exception to the fact that my young children are around alcohol during school related events(twice within school time) with potentiality of either of us not being there.
If they're serving your kids alcohol then that's valid grounds for complaint. If it's just other kids parents drinking then I'm struggling to see how it's different from lots of other stuff they'll experience in that big wide world out there. Or indeed how exactly they're going to come to any harm from such an experience - I'm assuming any parent who got unpleasantly drunk would be removed and not allowed back.
To some extent I do see your point, as I pointed out the difference with our school events up there (that alcohol doesn't appear to be served during school hours and I've not seen parents sloshed - maybe we just have a better class of middle class people sending their kids to our village school). However you appear to be lumping in the other occasions where alcohol is available at our school functions. What is the fundamental difference between alcohol being served at our school fete and at the village fete?
What is the fundamental difference between alcohol being served at our school fete and at the village fete?
The second isn't held at a school and centred around children?
As a governor at our local school I have been part of the should we/shouldn't we decision making process. Having a Parish Councillor on the governing body meant we have always been made aware of the legalities of selling booze at school events - if you don't have a licence you can't. Obviously there are ways around this - you bring in a mobile licenced bar or get a local pub to do the supply & sell bit & take a share of profits. About 5 years ago this approach led to some rowdy behaviour from parents who simply turned up & sat in the sun drinking heavily for 3 or 4 hours.
The following year it was decided that there should be no bar as such but you could have a 'free' glass of wine with your cheese platter or a 'free' Pimms with your strawberries & cream. This worked fine for the first year then over the next couple it transcended into some parents simply paying for piles of food they didn't want (which was either left behind or binned) then wandering off with trays full of the 'free' booze. End result, pid up idiots arguing with each other & staff/volunteers because they'd drunk the stalls dry.
Last Saturday saw our first ever summer fete (in my memory) without any booze at all & it was by far the most enjoyable. No grief, the seating areas weren't commandeered by a couple of groups for the entire duration and bigger numbers than ever stayed until the end. Early indications are that it raised a record amount too.
I'm not sure what conclusion you can draw from our experience as I think it would differ greatly from school to school but what was clear to us is that, as with many things in life, there are always a few aholes that will spoil any situation for the majority.
I wouldn't be comfortable with what you describe either, tang.
I'm not a teetotaller, and have no problem with my children being around if I'm having a couple of drinks, I just don't think a school event is an appropriate environment for social drinking if pupils are around.
Its school, its our childrens' formal education and while it isn't responsible for shaping every aspect of their lives, it should be taken seriously by pupils and parents alike. To me, this means parents shouldn't be getting pissed there, nobody should be smoking anywhere near it, dog owners shouldn't be letting their dogs crap on the surrounding pavements, parents shouldn't be idly parking cars round the gates and so on. Schools should be somewhere adults actively try to create an atmosphere of respect for other people (of all ages), and I can't quite see where alcohol can help with that.
Lot of straw men on this thread from what I can see.
I attended the majority of such functions when my children were younger and always remembered them as good fun and an opportunity to socialise with other parents who we normally only saw briefly at the gate or in passing during parents evenings.
Most people enjoyed a beer or a glass of wine and we all helped out clearing up, organising and taking turns on the BBQ.
The focus was on the children having a good time and I dont think this and a couple of beers or glasses of wine spread over the event are mutually exclusive.
I dont recall anybody getting overtly drunk or any other rowdiness which IMO shows that on the whole adults behave sensibly around drink.
I think you are making a mountain out of a molehill.
So what would you make of the following ads?
Buggered if I can make the video tags work.
I'd say the first one possibly has a fair point.
I'd say the second one is a straw man.
Buggered if I can make the video tags work.
Is that because you've been drinking?
Regarding the first, if they inherit my attitude to alcohol I'll be happy - regarding the second, if it makes you any happier I don't get my kids a drink at the school functions.
More worryingly Bravissimo, the first one suggests a link between beer drinking and the sprouting of facial hair! Possibly combined with gingerness!
Right!! Thats it! I'm on the wagon! đŻ
The videos dont seem to match the seriousness of the message IMO.
Dad asks his teenage son to get him a beer out of the fridge during a BBQ? I'm struggling to see much of a downside to that given the kids age. What am I missing?
My mother would have said alcohol was necassary to get through many of my Primary School events. But she sat in the naughty row at the back s****ing with the other naughty mums.
Exactly surfer! What would be the point of having kids at all, if they can't go and get you a beer from the fridge, while you talk rubbish to your mates. And another bloody thing.......
Just out of interest, would all the pro-boozers also be in favour of allowing smoking at school events?
Is that because you've been drinking?
75%.
Only behind the bike sheds
Just out of interest, would all the pro-boozers also be in favour of allowing smoking at school events?
No. Why do you ask?
Just out of interest, would all the pro-boozers also be in favour of allowing smoking at school events?
Don't be silly - somebody might set fire to the strawman.
Chapeau Sir
*applauds aracer*
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Only behind the bike sheds
then were can we go for ISYMIYSMY?
No. Why do you ask?
Why not?
Interestingly, would any of the pro-boozers welcome a mobile needle exchange unit at their school fĂȘtes?
Make go to a school fete, then yes, as long as its good shit.
How about a gateway to another dimension? That sounds like a cool thing to have at a school fete
Actually I'd say that being introduced to drinking as a normal everyday activity is probably better.
Actually, I would say NOT teaching kids that alcohol consumption is a normal everyday activity is probably better. Just becuase it's legal does not mean to say it's right to normalise consumption of serriously harmful and addictive drugs, no matter how they are positioned our culture.
http://www.economist.com/blogs/dailychart/2010/11/drugs_cause_most_harm
Just off down the pub for tea to show the kids that alcohol consumption is a normal everyday activity. Apologies for choosing there rather than McDonalds.
Just get the kids a lager top aracer. Little bit of sweetness helps it go down. It'll be more refreshing on a warm evening than a Fruit Shoot.
Why not have a mcDonalds concession at the village fete?
Just brings us back to the middle class alcoholism thing: Big Macs, smoking and special brew are lower class pursuits but Pimms and cheese+biscuits are for People Like Us as totally okay.
Why not have bales of straw and have a making-a-straw-man competition?
Making straw men is a bit middle class though isn't it?
