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[quote=Junkyard ]It comes from hadith or practice and the fact it is not universally practiced shows its usage is debatable
Sure - that's another debate though - but it's certainly something which is part of the culture of Islam but not part of the culture of any other religion (apart from a small sect only found in Israel).
ISTM that there is rather less effective difference in the clothing proscribed for men and women in Judaism simply because of the face covering issue.
possibly and yes they are different but the point is they BOTH have different rules for men as for women. I feel like this is a bit like going who is the most racist is it the EDL or the BNP.
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Lots of things have different rules for men and women. I've done a bit of research and it still seems to me that there's not a huge effective difference in the requirements for Jewish men and women. I note that there is no requirement for Orthodox women to wear a wig, simply a hair covering and hats, scarves or snoods are all used, whilst men are also required to cover their heads. In fact it appears that in some Conservative synagogues women are requested to wear a head covering simply as a gesture of equality with men who are required to wear a head covering.
If anything here, the question isn't which is worse, Islam or Judaism, but whether there's actually a big issue of repression at all in Judaism (any more than there is in any other religion without dress codes or indeed in general society - I'm really struggling to see their dress code as being the big issue). We could of course debate this, but it wouldn't advance the general point very much.
There is no doubt that in Islam the face covering is something which provides a quite clear difference in the dress codes, something which has a significant effect on the interaction with society. Is there really anything so significant in the Jewish dress code?
TBH i have no real idea why folk care, It does not bother me in the slightest re face.
Why do you care ? Genuine Q btw why is it so important we all talk here endlessly and no one sees anyones faces. Is this restricting us in some way ?
I always imagine your face when I'm typing ๐
Though I possibly phrased that wrong - it doesn't really bother me at all, but I am bothered by the repression issue and that it certainly is restrictive on those wearing that sort of dress.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2016/sep/01/muslim-women-veil-integrate-study
Interesting take on it that is counter intuitive
Gotta love science eh for what how it cuts through our prejudice and bias - it surprised me as well so not a dig at anyone but i suspect few of us would think empirical research would show this
Its on the front page of the guardian I was not googling for articles - I make this point only because i moan at others for confirmation bias it was simply serendipitous rather than indicative of any research in my part
A veil is seen as a genuine expression of a womanโs religiosity. Paradoxically, it is the women who are engaging with the modern world who appear to rely on the veil to signal to others that they will not succumb to the temptations of modern urban life,โ he added.Diego Gambetta, the reportโs other co-author, agreed. โContrary to the populist cant that seems now dominant in Europe, veiling could be a sign of more rather than less integration.
โHighly religious women who have more native friends and live in areas dominated by natives use the veil to keep their pious reputation while being integrated,โ said Gambetta, a professor of sociology and an official fellow of Nuffield College, University of Oxford. โBanning or shunning veiling would deprive them of a means that allow them more opportunity for integration rather than marking their differences.โ
You snipped this rather important bit:
We conjecture
Correlation does not imply causation and all that. All that waffle is simply their interpretation of the reasons and doesn't appear to be supported at all by the evidence, which is simply evidence of correlation.
Here's my interpretation:
"highly religious" women are subject to pressure from (male) members of their close social group to wear the veil, which increases with modernising forces. This is part of the repression, not an indication of their freedom to choose.
Of course I have no evidence that is the reason, but it's just as valid as their interpretation of the data.
Looking at the abstract, I see nothing to support the claims in the headline or sub-headline (though they do of course both include the word "may" - well muslim women may wear the veil because it blocks some of the smell of modern life, who knows?)
as you have seen it then surely its remembering ๐I always imagine your face when I'm typing
I picture you unicycling typing on a tablet ๐
I disagree its about which abrhamic faiths oppress women the mostwhether there's actually a big issue of repression at all in Judaism
I suspect we would all agree it goes Islam Judaism Christianity with none of them actually achieving equality.
I also think its pretty hard to argue none of them are repressive to women - all the religious leaders are men - though the christians are slowly addressing this and fracturing their church in the process
I just struggle with the folk who think its only ISlam that is shit to women and then ignore other religions that re also discriminatory
You never explained why the face was so important - its a geunine Q
It seems that women - married- have to cover their hair and men wear a hat
you could argue these are similar or different as you see fit
I think its clear the restriction on women is greater though there are restrictions for both so its less of a difference than in Islam- who is the most sexist basically However it is DEFINITELY different rules for women than for men which was the original point way back when this side bar started.
Not deliberately and I do apologise for doing such a small cut and paste job , next time i will add two more paragraphs just to be certain its not out of context ๐you snipped this rather important bit:
[quote=Junkyard ]I just struggle with the folk who think its only ISlam that is shit to women and then ignore other religions that re also discriminatory
I'm certainly not suggesting that at all, but we [b]were[/b] discussing dress codes, and however much you might try and argue it I think most of us agree that in Islam the dress code is far more repressive to women (compared to that for men) than it is in any other religion once face covering comes in (I don't personally think the hijab is a big deal one way or another or significantly different to other religions).
You never explained why the face was so important - its a geunine Q
In a more general sense? Because it's a basic part of "face to face" social interaction. Sure there is a lot of non face to face interaction nowadays, but it's always missing something - you know as well as I do the limits of this place and how easy it is to get into heated pointless arguments because we lack some of the normal social cues ๐ If your face is covered in day to day life then you're always missing out on that.
It seems that women - married- have to cover their hair and men wear a hat
you could argue these are similar or different as you see fit
Indeed - as I've said a few times, I'm really not seeing a huge difference. But the point is it is debatable - is women wearing a veil and men not in any way similar? No it's not a question of which is more sexist, it's a question of one being debatably sexist and one being quite clearly sexist.
Not deliberately
I wasn't accusing you of so doing (apologies if I appeared to be) but it does somewhat change the context of those claims - I think I've sufficiently explained why those claims are built on sand. ( ๐ - in the absence of direct face to face contact that will have to do)
TooTall - MemberNot for anything to do with you, so why care?
Because I care about other people than myself.
It's a tad ironic that women cyclists fought for the right to wear 'rational dress' over 100 years ago and we now have cyclists justifying restrictive and oppressive dress for women. What next, a bikeini?
When I've travelled to ME countries I was always amazed by how all these women seem to have made the same choice for themselves.
Who can blame the French really, all those people covering their faces causing trouble
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One of the things that seperates the percieved liberal west from the oppressive nations were are complaining about is the freedom to dress how you choose
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With regard to the beach those chosing not to sit and burn themselves for the entire afternoon are probably making the right choice with regard to skin cancer.
It's a tad ironic that women cyclists fought for the right to wear 'rational dress' over 100 years ago and we now have cyclists justifying restrictive and oppressive dress for women. What next, a bikeini?
The fight for Rational Dress was a fight for women to be able to wear whatever they like. The fight for burkas etc is equally a fight for women to wear whatever they like.
Sure, in some countries, women are forced to cover themselves up. But in some countries men are forced to grow beards. Does that mean in this country every man growing a beard is oppressing themselves and should be made to shave it off?
Burkini banning is just daft.
Integration both ways is highly preferable and much more likely to work.
The ability to see the face is reassuring to many westerners even if it can be assured it shouldn't be. It is.
Really tricky issue but ultimately I respect the rules of the countries I visit our I don't go. Home grown burka wearers are super tricky.
For all I know allan23 has a wealth of experience and knowledge, hence providing him with an opportunity to respond.
Quite a wealth of experience and knowledge thank you.
providing him with an opportunity to respond to the obvious troll.
Fixed it again, you missed some words out.
we now have cyclists justifying restrictive and oppressive dress for women
We have cyclists challenging this ignorant stereotype and suggesting that the solution to this is not for us to impose a restrictive and oppressive dress code for women to free from them from the oppression of a restrictive and oppressive dress code.
No one is justifying it they are saying that women are free to wear what they please and I wont fall into the incredibly lazy and ignorant trope that every single muslim woman who dresses like that has been forced to for she falls under the yoke of a man who oppresses her. Its ignorant nonesese
I wonder how many folk who pontificate on the Burka have ever actually spoken to woman about her choice to wear it ? Have you how extensive is your research?
I am wagering its less than one in a thousand who express this sort of view
This idea that every single Muslim female is a weak willed individual who is utterly under the control of a man is Just ignorant BS- its an acceptable form of racism that Jamby would not accept were Lefties to start saying it about Jews.
How many interactions do you have with women dressed like this per annum and to what extent were they so detailed that the lack of facial expression left you confused during your interactionIf your face is covered in day to day life then you're always missing out on that
Truthfully has it ever been an actual problem for you in the real world or is it just a hypothetical problem that has never ever occurred
arguing that banning an outfit is a stupid idea =/= justifying opression.we now have cyclists justifying restrictive and oppressive dress for women
Do you not think the government, in effect, introducing a dress code is repressive in itself?
It's depressing that women think that they should wear a burka (or maybe in some cases forced or pressurised), it's 2016 and they're living in Europe. As said before integration is a two way street. I'm not in agreement with it as I see it as a form of opressive control over women.
Do you not think the government, in effect, introducing a dress code is repressive in itself?
Nah we are making women wear what we want to free them up only Islam is making them wear things to oppress them.
WHat are you some sort of ignorant apologist for terrorism and the oppression of women?
Whenever I see a lady in western society wearing a Burka, I don't immediately connect it with religious belief and I would never associate it with modesty.
I see someone shouting "look at me, look at me, I'm different!"
People have been dressing to stand out from the crowd since clothes were invented.
Perhaps we should ban clothes?
so that one can engage in virtue signalling, frankly a bit sickening
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the question is this
are women that cover their faces being forced to do so?
If they are choosing to cover their faces then we would be oppressing them by removing that freedom of choice
so before we ban anything we should be answering the first question
if you can't see this then you are as messed up as any other misogynist of any other faith
Please also remember that we have only given our own women liberty within the last century, and we did not give them liberty by [i]removing[/i] rights
Are burka wearers also banned from wearing brown shoes? Or is that form of oppression restricted to "merchant bankers"?
When I see someone in a burka I sing the song from Mos Eisley Cantina in my head and get on with my day.
see a lady in western society wearing a Burka, I don't immediately connect it with religious belief
yes and when i see someone dressed like a nun or as a priest i dont associate that with religious belief either
there is literally no connection between their religious views and their attire ๐
The same is true of all the muslims you see dressed like Muslims
Tom_W1987 - MemberI find the denial these are an issue, so that one can engage in virtue signalling
You seem like one of the good guys so I think it's only fair to tell you, it's completely impossible to use the term "virtue signalling" without having everyone who sees it think you're a ****. It is an immutable law.
reading with interest some of the comments on this issue.
seems to be a misunderstanding over what a hijab/burka/niqab are:
this is a hijab
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as a muslim i dont agree with the niqab and i never will....but thats down to my interpretation on how a muslim woman should dress.
there is no text in the quran that instructs a woman to cover her face but the guidelines are for her to =dress with modesty and to cover her "adornments" to protect her modesty
And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, their brothers' sons, their sisters' sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed.
it all boils down to how an individual interprets what those guidelines mean.
my wife wears a hijab and has a couple of burkas that he soemtimes wears....but i wouldnt be happy if she started wearing a niqab. she knows that but her interpretation is the same as mine and she also doesnt agree with the niqab
but if a muslim woman wants to wear a niqab through her own choice then fair enough but the problem is that its a very grey area as many feel they are doing it through free choice but really that choice is based on a misunderstood guideline
how a muslim woman dresses is no different to how a jewish woman dresses...it all depends on how moderate or orthodox you are in your religious practices and how you interpret the religious guidelines
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dress with modesty and to cover her "adornments" to protect her modesty
That's one of my issues with all religions, how come women have to protect their modesty, but men don't?
It's almost as if they were all written by men to keep women in their 'place'.
allan23 - MemberQuite a wealth of experience and knowledge thank you.
Which bizarrely you are choosing to keep to yourself. ๐
Would you care to discuss the reasoning behind the burka allan?
Maybe you can teach me something. ๐
both judaism and Islam expect the men to dress modestly as well - we have covered this in the thread
sobriety - MemberThat's one of my issues with all religions, how come women have to protect their modesty, but men don't?
Because the devil only works through the woman to tempt the man, not the other way around.
Don't blame religion, it's that naughty misogynist devil!
monde - your picture is semi accurate. the abaya, chador, dupata and hijab are all head scarfs.
the abaya is one piece that has a single hole for the face...you can get it in varying lengths but it is usually worn with a burka gown.
the chador is actually a shawl and women tend to use a safety pin to secure it under the chin.
the dupata is actually a loosely worn variant of the hijab.
as for the burka...it is a long gown that is work=n to cover a womans body and is worn in addition to a headscarf...usually a chador, abaya or hijab.
the niqab is just the face veil. women who tend to wear the niqab also wear the burka and the common mistake is to assume the burka and niqab are the same thing.
both judaism and Islam expect the men to dress modestly as well - we have covered this in the thread
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Gonzy all the definitions I had seen (and my understanding) is that a burka covers the face with just a slit for the eyes or even less showing a mesh.
Where are the photos of the Jewish people taken ? The only places I have ever heard of Jewish women being dressed like that is in very strict Muslim countries where all women of any faith are required to be covered. I can show you millions of images of women in Israel dressed as Western women would dress. One of the advocay groups was circulating photos of Musim women in Burkinis on the beech in Tel Aviv last week. It's their choice to wear them and it's permitted.
I have arranged a business trip to Saudi where I was told a female colleague would have to wear a burka in the street and have her hair covered at all times. That's a rule of the country for religious reasons amd applied to all visitors irrespective of faith. Not surprisingly she decided not to join us
Modesty of dress in Islam for men does not include having your face and or even hair covered. A man can show his ankles too for example. A man can go out on his own. I have been on a few holidays to traditional Muslim countries/refions where you simply do not see any women out and about and certainky not in a cafe for example.
Nun's are people who have chosen to dedicate their lives to God and live in a special religious environment, the female equivalent to a monk. Muslim women in a burka are generally simply a wife or daughter trying to go about their normal life.
jambalaya - i dont know where the middle picture has been taken....looks like an airport of some sort...the top picture looks like its at the wailing wall and the bottom picture looks like it could be either israel of palestine
Gonzy all the definitions I had seen (and my understanding) is that a burka covers the face with just a slit for the eyes or even less showing a mesh.
traditional burka is as i have described. the addition of the niqab and its variations have muddied the understanding of what a burka is in modern times. take the niqab off and it becomes a traditional burka but because so many wome wear the niqab with the burka the definition of a burka has changed to include the niqab.
the saudis are idiots...its only because they are custodians of our most holy sites that they are in an elevated position of power. their wahabi ideology is frowned upon by the vast majority of muslims...except the fundamentalist nutjobs who are financed by them
Modesty of dress in Islam for men does not include having your face and or even hair covered. A man can show his ankles too for example. A man can go out on his own.
like ive already said before....there is nothing in the quran that says a woman must cover her face.
as for the restriction on women going out on their own...thats is more to do with culture and less to do with religion
men are supposed to wear clothes that do not fall below the ankles. many muslim men dont but those that do are actually required to roll their garments up over the ankle especially when prying
Prying:'excessively interested in a person's private affairs; too inquisitive'
Hmm
yet some sects and many liberals allow western dress with no head scarves at all
the saudis are idiots...its only because they are custodians of our most holy sites that they are in an elevated position of power
Or perhaps as custodians they feel certain obligations?
I have arranged a business trip to Saudi where I was told a female colleague would have to wear a burka in the street and have her hair covered at all times
It certainly wasn't that way in the early 80s when I was there. There was the odd clampdown whereby Western women had to cover their arms and men and women weren't allowed in swimming pools at the same time but such pronouncements died away after a while. Until next time.
Interestingly at that time it did seem there was a certain amount of "testing" of the system by younger Saudi women. Although veiled, the veils were becoming very fine. Stand next to someone clad like this and their features (and makeup) were easily discernable. Oh and there are (or certainly were) areas of Saudi where local tribal custom meant women did not wear veils.
Maybe I'm pretty sanguine regarding dress standards as a result of seeing fully veiled women everywhere I went. Back in Manchester even with it's multi-cultural population, the number of women in veils is tiny, so it's not something that particularly bothers me.
Apart from that, as an atheist and liberal, I would like to see an end to all religiously based pronouncements.
What age do girls have to start wearing hijabs/burqas/niqabs? What would happen to them if they decided to reject it?
I see someone shouting "look at me, look at me, I'm different!"
Yeah & ?
Which bizarrely you are choosing to keep to yourself.
Would you care to discuss the reasoning behind the burka allan?
Maybe you can teach me something.
Not bizarrely, quite sensibly as you are not interested in discussion, education or open mindedness, you are only interested in people confirming your bias or trying to shoot down those that disagree.
You've already confirmed a lack of understanding of Islam, if you don't know where then I suggest you go back and read your comments.
Hint: All the Muslim women I've ever worked with have been able to attend Mosque.
Back under your bridge.
Or perhaps as custodians they feel certain obligations?
their only obligations is to preserve the holy sites and to ensure the safe passage of pilgrims.
in reality they abuse their position of power...this abuse led to the closure of one of the main walkways to Mina during the 2015 Hajj pilgrimage because a royal wanted to give some of his friends a tour...the closure led to a stampede which resulted in the deaths of over 2000 pilgrims
this same saudin royal family are hell bent on trying to turn mecca into some sort of arab las vegas with some of the building projects going on
this same saudi government is complicit in shady dealings with terrorist organisations and has had its hand in many of the middle eastern troubles
it also has an extensive world wide programme of trying to promote its wahabist ideology...an ideology which treats women as second class citizens, endorses capital and corporal punishment and treats non arabs with contempt
all the while they will show the muslim world that they are the beacon of islam when in reality they are hypocrites and religious zealots who gamble, live excessively, drink alcohol and fornicate at will
the question is thisare women that cover their faces being forced to do so?
If they are choosing to cover their faces then we would be oppressing them by removing that freedom of choice
so before we ban anything we should be answering the first question
+1.
Are so many folks really unable to grasp the simple concept that some of the wearers might be doing so out of choice??
The level of intolerance & ignorance here some days is really quite depressing..
[quote=mrlebowski ]Are so many folks really unable to grasp the simple concept that some of the wearers might be doing so out of choice??
The level of intolerance & ignorance here some days is really quite depressing..
Before you declare everybody intolerant, perhaps you should check exactly how many actually want to ban the burka/niqab. Questioning whether such dress codes are appropriate or repressive doesn't mean you want to ban them.
repressive
It's only repressive if the wearer is being forced.
If you force someone to stop wearing the burqa et a whose chosen tol then whose being the repressive one?
Before you declare everybody intoleran
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Did I actually say everyone? No I said:
Are so many folks really unable to grasp the simple concept that some of the wearers might be doing so out of choice??
That's really quite different to claiming 100% of posters are against the burqa - don't try to put words in my mouth!
TL;DR, it's all about choice, yes? Forcing bad, choosing good.
Is it really that black and white?
An interesting question might be, [i]why [/i]are (some) women to dress in such a manner? I'm guessing of course but I'm fairly certain it's not simply a fashion statement. Doing it to please their husband or because they believe their religion requires it is still a "choice" but it's not really free will is it; they're not forced to wear it but there may be pressure or coercion involved.
Where I'm going with this is, people like the lady mentioned earlier who felt that hiding her face made integration easier, shouldn't we be asking why? Is there more we can do so that they wouldn't feel compelled to hide? Counselling maybe?
Banning clothing isn't the answer, because as we've discussed it just replaces one restriction with another. If we genuinely want to fight oppression then we need to tackle the root cause rather than a symptom.
All the Muslim women I've ever worked with have been able to attend Mosque.
Coincidentally, I drove past a large mosque this morning (I don't normally but had to take a detour). I noticed the front door was huge and had a big sign saying "MAIN ENTRANCE," and round the back was a smaller door signed "ENTRANCE FOR LADIES." I'm sure all the ladies use it by choice though.
The Burka ban in public spaces is to well and truly to cross the Rubicon - Equally to litigate againt private property owners' right to discretionary measures is also in direct opposition to classical liberalism which recognises the inalienable right to discrimination without persecution ..
perhaps you ought to ask the wearers whether they thinkperhaps you should check exactly how many actually want to ban the burka/niqab. Questioning whether such dress codes are appropriate or repressive doesn't mean you want to ban them.
1. wearing it is repressive and they are forced to
2. Forcing them not to wear it is egalitarian liberal and incredibly freeing
I hate the phrase but it does seem to be white men getting offended on behalf of Muslim women because you have decide they wear it because a man has forced them to. This "hypothesis" - I would call it ignorance personally- will not stand up to much analysis.
I dont like the way some women wear lots of make up- i bet there is some society pressure there to look good as well as personal choice - can I ban it ? or is it basically none of my business how they dress?
I am not forced to wear trousers rather than a skirt. However the reaction of the wider society were i to exercise my free will may mean i feel coerced into not wearing one. I am really freely choosing to not wear skirts or have I been coerced gently over time by societal norms? Your point is not without merit but it is an argument that one can use to any society that has a "dress code" however vague. Are any of us truly free to dress as we please ? we all dress like westerners and not like Maoris or the Terena people of Brazil. We are all, to some degree conditioned to dress some way by our culture. That fact alone does not make it oppressive and if it does we are all oppressed.it is still a "choice" but it's not really free will is it; they're not forced to wear it but there may be pressure or coercion involved.
Given its you I assume it was well meaning but I dont think it would be well received to suggest Muslim women need counselling due to the clothes they wear.Is there more we can do so that they wouldn't feel compelled to hide? Counselling maybe?
