[Closed] Age gap relationships

We've a couple where I work. She is 35 he is just 20. A very young 20 IYKWIM - acne flounces and all that caper.

Most people here think it's weird. A woman in the local sarnie shop asked her where her son was one day when she went in without the boyfriend!

I'm not bothered. I just think he should've played the field a bit before getting so serious with her.

on of my posts seems to have gone AWOL, I was going to say the same anyway, if we discounted 5 years or less gap and counted up the responses would men be in the majority as the older half of age gap relationships? it appears not, but I can't be bothered too count the replies - volunteers?

Leave it Derek. Move on 😉

I did see a 30yr old when I was 17, but that was exceptional circumstances (someone was after citizenship, I wish I was making it up).

My current SO if the one woman who is younger than me, and it's alright.
There's currently a 18.5% difference in ages and its slowly shrinking.

I came out of a 12 year relationship 3 years ago

There was a 28 year age gap between us, and for most of that we had a wonderful time.
I made the incredibly difficult decision to leave as there were two things we were never going to be able to do together:
Have a family together, and Grow old together..... 🙁

I am now 38, engaged to someone I went to school with and we have a Beautiful 14mth old girl.

Age gap relationships in my experience can be wonderful, but there will come a time when you need/want/have to do different things.

I'm 55 and hopefully lovely young Roxana Gregorova will get a Visa this year to come over following our wedding in Georgia.

We met online and its not like what everyone says. We are normal people and she has a big heart. She is also bringing over her Mother, ex husband and child too as she didn't want to feel lonely in a different culture.

Thanks Hora...needed that! 😆

What did Hora's wife say? or is she dating a Polish guy while Mark has his fun? 😆

I dated a 42 year old when I was 26, she was hot and smoking in bed literally. We broke up as the conversation of kids/growing old made her worry I would leave her. She was wrong as I still don't want kids and I'm 34 now.

Hello Russian wives direct? I would like to order part number 36DD please...my credit card is 8)

cr500Dom...

You were 35 and she 63 when you broke up? And 23 and her 51 when it started? 😯

Back to seriousness. sis in law (30) saw a married 50yr old and he told her all the male-crap (that we all know), strung her along for two years. You know 'will leave wife etc etc'.

He didn't even have any money and looked like Chris De Burg ffs 😆

Some people just like em older looking I guess.

Personally I'd be more than happy with a 21-38 yr old

When I was in a relationship somehow the women seem to be more mature thinking than I do ... hmmm ... even when they some were younger than me. 🙄

deadlydarcy - Member
cr500Dom...

You were 35 and she 63 when you broke up? And 23 and her 51 when it started?

Yep, and we had an amazing 12 years together...... you sound surprised ? ❓

Surprised? Yes mate, it's a fair old difference. But no other comment other than fair dues. Always impressed when people can make it work. 🙂

smoking in bed literally

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Extinguisher? She needed extinguishing......
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deadlydarcy - Member
Surprised? Yes mate, it's a fair old difference. But no other comment other than fair dues. Always impressed when people can make it work.

23 and 51 when it started?

Everyone has their own taste. Like I said my sis in law looks like a 25yr old and he looked his age. She obviously likes her men slightly older.

Each to their own. What annoyed me is the fact he used her and no intention of leaving his wife.

Hubby and I have a large age gap, he is a lot younger than me. However we met when he was 25.
My sister is married to someone with a really large age gap (him younger) and my brother is also younger than his wife... mmm must run in the family. sadly my cousin who's wife was almost 20 years older than him died a few years ago.

I drive him mad, 'cos he's the 'slipper pipe type' and I'm the 'lets go out and mtb, walk in the countryside, go camping, etc. Our relationship works because we meet in the middle maturity wise and we share so many interests.

CR500DOM... can you tell us about your relationship with your mother, please?

I'm still interested to hear about the Him:75, Her:45 relationships and how the smell of wee and being retired fits into daily life...

He's 80 :

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She's 43 :

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I'm sure she copes fine with the smell of wee. And I believe he's still busy shafting people.

Although I do sometimes wonder what first attracted her to the multi-billionaire 😕

Come on Jane - give us figures bunnyhop-nbt = ? ❓

Come on Jane - give us figures bunnyhop-nbt = ?

Are you coming down south up for a ride soon?

euphamism? 😯

Might be on the ton ride Janey.

Are you going on the Manchester tunnels tour?

TSY I have a very good relationship with my Mother thanks, My Ex and my mother couldnt have been more different either 😀 but they did get on well too.
My Ex was not your average 51year old woman either, skis to instructor level, climbs mountains, rides motorbikes, windsurfs, Size 8-10 super fit etc etc 😉

My popular psychology book says you're lying but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt today. 😀

And I can't deny, going from a saggy 40-something to a pert smooth-skinned 25 year-old is definitely to be recommended.

Current play-thing is 24, not marriage material but great fun when the lights are out!

In which case, you won't be too upset when the 24 year-old ditches you because more hair is growing out of your nose than your head.

I had a mate that was going out with his friend's mum. It seemed a bit strange that he was his mate's de facto step-father. It would have weirded me out.

personally, I went out with a 27 year old when I was 20. Ah, the older woman. She taught me a thing or two I can tell you. Mind you, so did another ex-gf that was 40+ when I was just over 30.

I would not be happy going out with a lass a lot younger than me. It would seem very strange and not right.

Are you going on the Manchester tunnels tour?

captaincarbon - 'Coming down south up for a ride', means he lives in that north Manchester, while we (the royal we) live in that south Manchester and I always seem to say are you up for a ride...... whoops went on a bit too much there!

If an older guy is with a younger woman (10+years difference) 99.9 times out of 100 either he is minted .. or she is a bit retarded.

If an older woman is with a younger guy (10+years difference) 99.9 times out of 100 she is either minted .. or he is a bit retarded.

Although I do sometimes wonder what first attracted her to the multi-billionaire

Was wondering how long til someone brought up Rupert Murdoch. Obviously she likes being shafted too, he's done it to everyone else after all!

I wonder just how much money she will get when he finally inevitably croaks it, I know they have kids together, but I'll be the tight bastard has got everything so tightly locked up that even though I'm sure she'll be rich in her own right, it will likely be less than 1% of his overall fortune she inherits when he does pop off his perch. And quite frankly, as gold-diggers go, I've got a massive amount of respect for her, cos to marry Murdoch and spend 10 or more years waiting for him to croak before you get rich... Surely that's worth at least £1billion in anyone's book? 😉

Manchester tunnels tour? Oooo please tell! Urban exploration??

My Ex and my mother couldnt have been more different either

I'd respectfully suggest that that's not true. They could have been different ages, for a start.

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me just 20 her nearly 22!!

That's not worth bothering about is it!! Although, she did take the piss about dating a teenager for a bit, the cheeky mare.

LOL, love is blind, don't matter about the age gap.