[Closed] 41 and single again.....

Ponging Old F.....

I was on there for a bit and approched it in much the same way I do everything in life.

I think I had 5 or 6 dates in 1 week.

4 yrs ago the wife naffed of with her new man. I'm now 40, depressed and feel that my life is over, i don't go out anymore and have no interests in anything.

EH NAW! I picked myself up, bought a new MTB went on [url= http://sierracycling.com/ ]Holiday to Spain[/url] for MTB purposes only. Changed jobs. Joined the local cycle club and found a new burd, did [url= http://www.scotlandcoasttocoast.com/ ]this[/url] and [url= http://www.scotlandcoasttocoast.com/ ]this[/url] and [url= http://manxe2e.org/categories/view/3 ]this[/url] want to do [url= http://www.nofussevents.co.uk/online_entry/Tour-de-Ben-Nevis/2774/ ]this[/url], moved forward, she moved in, just spent a great weekend with some riding on my new road bike and then on Sunday farted about in the garden and we drank beer at lunch time in the sun.

Chin up fella. Life is full of cycles only the road changes (I made that up btw! can u tell?)

try "fitness singles" at least you cna have someone to play with for a while.. except that she's better than me at most things, DIY, MTB, Kayaks, dog walking..

Joined the local cycle club and [b]found a new burd[/b]

So there I was, 40, happily single, minding my own business, riding my bike, walking the dog... when along came this guy, who didn't seem to mind me doing my own stuff, and who was happy to go off and do his own. I rode Kielder 100, he did Coast to Coast. I rode LEJOG, he rode the Etape Caledonia... I moved in, now we have too many bikes, a dog, his kids on occasion, a cat. We do MTB, kayaking, other stuff and drink beer in the sun.

Life is good. Get on and do stuff - you never know what will happen or who you'll meet 🙂

^^ Hey you two.

Spelling mistakes aside.
Sounds good.
Good for you.
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http://singletrackworld.com/forum/topic/week-off-in-junewhat-to-do-in-scotland
ive got plans...ill stay off lasses for a while and see how i get on...a lot of the comments were helpful so thanks...close to her folks which will be tricky and we're pretty amicable at the mo so im sure itll be fine.i paid for most stuff as she was at uni so money is easy to sort out...

thanks all! 😆

Bobby if your near Glentress 15/16th tie up with us (a group of STWers......dont worry Im the only annoying one) 🙂

...training for an ironman

I hope things work out for you - especially as I'm in the same boat at 47...she's buying me out so I get a fresh start, but 23 years is going to take some shrugging off 🙂

I can second the recommendation for Cycle ACtive's trip to Morocco!
Or www.mountainbikekerala.com is the other awesome trip I've been on.

Mite do the tress trip... Who's going? What's the sop?

When I was ditched by my boyfriend of 5 years, I got a tattoo (because I'd always wanted one, but held off because he 'didn't like tattoos on women') and got a hamster.

At 41 I imagine you'll have learnt to be more efficient, so should therefore totally get a tattoo of a hamster done.

At 41 I imagine you'll have learnt to be more efficient, so should therefore totally get a tattoo of a hamster done.

ha ha - great!

Do you think anyone has ever got a tattoo of a hamster????

I'll pass on the tattoo... Not big on rodents but appreciate the advice...

Great love story guys 🙂

boltonjon - Member

At 41 I imagine you'll have learnt to be more efficient, so should therefore totally get a tattoo of a hamster done.

ha ha - great!

Do you think anyone has ever got a tattoo of a hamster????

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WTF????

thats unreal - why would someone do that to themselves????

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now, a tattoo of an Umpa Lumpa - that makes sense - but a hamster??? 😀

How about an oompa loompa riding a hamster

nah, that'd kill all the childhood magic

I've always wanted some dwarfs dressed as Oompa Loompas at my wedding to do the table service

hence why i'm 36 and never even lived with a girl, let alone married one!!

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LoL. ^^^ excellent post.
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Start of your new life mate. Ride lots, ride with lots of mates, go on a STW ride or a club ride. Keep your mates close.

Forget about women for a bit, just enjoy your new found "you" time.

go on a STW ride

Wont that makes him more angry? 😆

[i]Wont that makes him more angry?[/i]

Only if he wakes up wearing a new Umpa Lumpa tattoo, the next morning.....

It never fails to amaze what folk will get etched onto they're body!

searched Lake Garda and found your post! Just booked my trip to Lake Garda by myself because I also just split from my partner of 9 years. Loving these comments, freedom is a beautiful thing! All I can say is, make the most of it because we all need these women at some point, until then do everything you wanted.... I am!