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[Closed] Riding friends. Where have they all gone?

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Used to be out in groups of 10 or more, now lucky to get 3 people together...
Just seem to be riding more by myself these days.
The rest are now abroad, or have found new hobbies. A couple of friends are repeatedly pulling out the hangover/children card, I only ever see them in the pub now. Anyone else finding the same?


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:20 pm
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They'll be afraid of the rain & mud


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:21 pm
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Yep. Same here (although I never got to groups of 10, to be honest). I struggle to find a riding buddy these days but perhaps that is just because no one likes me....sniff...sniff.... ๐Ÿ˜‰


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:24 pm
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I am. But then I'm the one in the pub moaning about his kids ๐Ÿ™‚

Seriously though - You'll be surprised how many reappear when the sun comes out. Apparently some people don't find riding in dark rainy sub-zero temperatures appealing. The big jessies!!!!


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:25 pm
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get new mates


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:26 pm
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I am having to limit the Big Bike Bash to 500. You can come to that if you want to meet lots more people.

I ran the STW Southern Festival last year in my back garden and that has evolved into 30-40 riders who ride together regularly. Not all at once but normally in reasonable size groups.


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:26 pm
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people don't find riding in dark rainy sub-zero temperatures appealing

Amen to that.


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:26 pm
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We've seemed to have drifted apart too, not sure why.

I now just go out on my own, when I want. If I don't feel like going I stay in, or if I want a lie in I have one. I've also lost a bit of interest (connected? probably) and now find myself drawn to the dark side.

Miss the company though ๐Ÿ™

Any fancy a Billy-No-Mates STW meet? You must come on your own (although shared lifts, arranged pick-ups of "strangers" is allowed ๐Ÿ™„


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:29 pm
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The South Manchester Massive don't get the numbers out nowadys. Now I think about it - Its all dropped off since Hora started actually turning up for rides

I'm sure that just coincidental


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:34 pm
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I bet they got fed up with hora riding off the front and ragging the hell out of all the really technical stuff...


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:38 pm
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aye, same's happened to me. Maybe it's just me.


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:47 pm
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It must be a trend, our group of 8 regulars is down to 2 of us, cosy anyway!

We have put it down to:-

- fear of mud
- fear of the cold
- cold hearted women


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:50 pm
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I agree with SFB. I'm sure there's plenty of people on here willing to go out on a ride with you or would be happy for you to tag along on theirs. I've met loads of new people on here and have made some great friends ๐Ÿ™‚


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:52 pm
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[i]hora riding off the front and ragging the hell out of all the really technical stuff... [/i]

Come Summer you never know....start putting the hardwork in now... 8)

Binners, fancy a roadride upto Stockport then into manc (cough beer) on Wed night?


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:52 pm
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Same here, mostly ride on my own these days, harder to get motivated on your own though, used to find that if a meet was arranged, I wouldn't wimp out, much easier to stay in bed when your only letting yourself down.


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 2:54 pm
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I don't do tarmac fella. You know that. I might have a few beers after work though


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 3:02 pm
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Its Chinese New Year today Binners. Tonight it will be like sitting inside a Chinese TV sitcom.

Ps. You dont do Tarmac because you commute to work on a mountainbike. Trust me. Borrow my tracky and you'll love the sensation of speed.


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 3:11 pm
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I know the feeling as all my old racing/riding buddies have faded away. I suppose they might have realized there where more important things in life than riding a bike in the mud/ice/snow/rain*. Can't think what though. perhaps we should start a thread on that?

*Delete as applicable.


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 3:23 pm
 hora
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To be honest though after a hardweek at work, going out in the wind/rain/ice etc to unwind does seem abit daft.

You can see a pretty good arguement for 'cross-training' in the winter months


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 3:28 pm
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Binners, did Hora ever try to give you that Chinese Burn, or did he bottle it, like a proper mincing ponce?

I bet he bottled it...


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 3:52 pm
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Stop stirring, he might come round and batter me RudeBoy!


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 3:54 pm
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He wouldn't bloody dare!!!


 
Posted : 26/01/2009 4:00 pm