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He was a disabilitist on Blue Peter, everyone at my school in the 80's called each other a Joey or a Deacon or a Deaconoid etc.

My mates have not heard of him !


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:04 pm
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the ultimate 80's put down at school


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:05 pm
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Yes!! I think everyone was a Joey at some point or other at school.

Rachel


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:06 pm
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Oh yes fond memories 😆


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:08 pm
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Quite an impressive story about how could communicate through his friend.
When did political correctness begin? 😕


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:08 pm
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Always caused a titter as my grans pet budgie was called Joey.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joey_Deacon


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:09 pm
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Joey Deacon


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:11 pm
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There used to be an awesome homage website but its been taken down


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:11 pm
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The guy is a legend


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:13 pm
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Still remember the jokes!
Q What is Joey Deacons ambition A To lick his left ear!
we were about 6 at the time 😳


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:14 pm
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It was an attempt by blue Peter to get kids to accept people with disabilities more, and to show they are also real people just like anyone else, but sadly, they seriously underestimated just how cruel kids can be, and it kind of backfired.

I still cringe now if I hear or read the expression used, it's horrible. Truly nasty.

Same with:

Biffa = Spina Bifida

Flid = Thalidomide victim.

Spaccer/Spac/Spaz = Spastic (Cerebral Palsy)

Mong = Mongol (Downs Syndrome)

And probbly numerous others.

Fortunately most people grow up though, and realise the use of such expressions is really hurtful and dehumanising.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:19 pm
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Thanks Elfin. I'm staggered at (most of) the previous posts, really disappointed.

[edit] and to the OP - pot, kettle, black... wrong forum...?


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:20 pm
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Grew up in Caterham (Upper) and lived about a mile away from St Lawrence's hospital where Joey Deacon lived for most of his life and I often saw him around the place. The hospital is mostly shut down now and the Mead along Rook Lane is finally being sold off...it's very sad for the residents and community.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:22 pm
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Never heard of him


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:25 pm
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Never heard of him

I salute you Sir Deacon of Joey


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:27 pm
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I'm staggered at (most of) the previous posts, really disappointed.

Stop being such a Joey


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:29 pm
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This really is humour for idiots.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:29 pm
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Those making certain comments ought to be mindful of the fact that there are people on here who have loved ones who suffer with such terrible conditions, who may find some of the 'jokes' incredibly offensive and upsetting.

Grow up ffs. You wouldn't make such 'jokes' in the presence of those who suffer, or who have to care for sufferers, so don't make them on here.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:32 pm
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Yawn


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:33 pm
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5-4-3


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:37 pm
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This is not and never was funny. Take a long look at yourselves if you think it is.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:38 pm
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Bunch o'tards


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:40 pm
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I think that a lot of the people that remarked on the use of the term 'joey' were reminiscing about their childhood and how it was such a popular word at the time. That doesn't mean that they would approve of its use now - those same people have grown up now.

When I was little, I'm sure I used it. I wouldn't even think of it now.

Rachel


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:41 pm
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+1 allthegear


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:44 pm
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yes - everytime someone 40+ sees my AM41s

am starting to understand just how much you need to judge people you have never met and dont know to 'fit in' on this forum...


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:45 pm
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hang on a minute what about Stan?
everyone talks about Joey but it was Stan who translated the belming for Joey's fans.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:48 pm
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Pretty sure that was Ernie.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 10:58 pm
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I also bet the PC Brigade like cynic-al al and elfin think that "Little Britain" "Come fly with me" et al are racist, sexist, gheyist etc. Very narrow horizons indeed.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 11:01 pm
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Posted : 30/09/2011 11:03 pm
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I also bet the PC Brigade like cynic-al al and elfin think that "Little Britain" "Come fly with me" et al are racist, sexist, gheyist etc. Very narrow horizons indeed.

Ooh look Al, an attempt at justification!

And he called you 'PC Brigade!' And basically sed you smell of wee.

You should duff him up after school.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 11:07 pm
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KKF I don't watch Little Britain. It's crap. Actually the vomiting woman is ,OK.

The point is if you say on a public forum how funny it was to laugh at Joey it just doesn't show you in the best light-you may well be ok but it's not looking like that way.

I prob look like a right misogynist tonight, hopefully folk know I was having a half-laugh.


 
Posted : 30/09/2011 11:10 pm
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I know two disabled chaps who refer to themselves as spastics. It gets them a laugh and it breaks the ice.

Only the people who laugh nastily need to look at themselves long and hard, the rest need to get out of their own arseholes. Disabled people have senses of humour just like the rest of us and use it just as often as the rest of us do.


 
Posted : 01/10/2011 12:04 am
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to be fair we still had the spastics society until the early 90's so calling someone a spaz or joey was fairly normal for a wee kid in the 80's.

Times and language change, in another 20 years we may just refer to everyone whatever their colour, physical or mental ability, sexuality etc.. as an "elfin" as by then he will have taken over the world and anyone over 4ft 6 will have been put to sword in his new world order 😯


 
Posted : 01/10/2011 12:09 am
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Pour soul, I remember feeling uncomfortable at school with this being used as an insult. It's not improved any with age.

Plenty of insults in my vocabulary that have the desired effect without trawling up the oldies but not so goodies


 
Posted : 01/10/2011 12:09 am
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+1 For Ernie.

I reckon he just made up what Joey said as no one else could understand him.

'Lost yer shoe in the river'...


 
Posted : 01/10/2011 12:22 am
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omg i ant called no one that for years lol


 
Posted : 01/10/2011 12:24 am
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It was an attempt by blue Peter to get kids to accept people with disabilities more, and to show they are also real people just like anyone else, but sadly, they seriously underestimated just how cruel kids can be, and it kind of backfired.

I still cringe now if I hear or read the expression used, it's horrible. Truly nasty

Cr@p

He is a legend from my childhood alongside Mohammed Ali, Barry Sheene, Evel Knievel, Neil Armstrong etc.

Joey via his mate Tom (who was the only one who could communicate with him - and told us his life story, although I must admit I always wondered why no-one ever qustioned this) and Blue Peter taught me what "Spastics" as Joey via Tom was known were all about. Times were different then there was no "care in the community" as it was christened in Thatch's era. All the local "spastics" we're "kept"/ cared for in the local crumbling old converted mansion house around my way (as Joey himself was for most his life). As a 9-10 year old boy Joey's story, especially presented by Janet Ellis 😉 taught me alot about people who, in those days, I would have otherwise have had no real contact with.

BTW. I was looking at those teardrop mini caravan things earlier with my 11 year old daughter. One had the model name "The Joey" I'm guilty, I LOL'd. She didn't get it, sadly.

When did political correctness begin?

This.


 
Posted : 01/10/2011 12:45 am
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Grew up in Caterham. He was a guy that lived there. Get a life.


 
Posted : 01/10/2011 12:55 am
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"care in the community"

sadly that was responsible for the deaths of many, some people should have never been let out.


 
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****ing hell Elf, you have a sensitive side. +1 mate.


 
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This is not and never was funny. Take a long look at yourselves if you think it is.

You're wrong, when I was 8 it was pant wittingly funny. Kids would contort themselves into allsorts of weird stances whilst grunting to pull off the best 'deacon'

However now I'm an old fart and wouldn't dream of making such remarks in public areas/forums.

(in the privacy of my own home the childhood memory still makes me smile though)


 
Posted : 01/10/2011 7:08 am
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Another Caterhamist here .
It is an unfortunate thing that most 40 - 45 year olds grew up with Blue Peter. In its day it was great childrens television . I used to see Joey and Ernie on their mobility scooters all the time.
My brother is now called 'Joey' despite the fact his name is Alan . He is a nice enough bloke, but when younger was abit accident prone and weird.
Anyway , didnt BP raise a sheg load of cash ( probably £1.59 back in the day ) by collecting ring pulls or someting else of worthless value for Joey ?
Alan is still Joey in my mobile / email address book ,i know i am a cruel and heartless b'tard ,but its still dead funny 30 years later


 
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He is a legend from my childhood alongside Mohammed Ali, Barry Sheene, Evel Knievel, Neil Armstrong etc.

This.

Sure Joey was used as an insult but there was no real malice in it. I certainly don't think anyone had anything other than admiration for the chap himself. 🙂


 
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This really is humour for idiots.

You've come to the right place then. 🙂


 
Posted : 01/10/2011 8:31 am
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Kids are just harsh, if you dont know any better then its just acceptable. Not even funny just accepted behavior even if its not acceptable behavior. We had a guy called Deacon at school he got called Joey. Just unfortunate timing for him. I got called Rowland because of a very vague resemblance helped by NHS glasses to one grange hill character. Just unfortunate timing for me. Not sure how Deacon felt about being called Joey, dont think anyone ever implied anything other than a linking name. I didnt enjoy Rowland as it was often used with some other form of abusive behavior. These things are transient kids move on, sometimes things get better and sometimes they dont.


 
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