am i doing something wrong?
Experimenting is part of the fun.
This is what I’ve discovered. Less paper and card seems to work better in my small stove (probably not an issue for you), which is a shame as I get loads of waste card at work, but think I was smothering the fire, piling loads in.
Don’t skimp on the kindling (look on eBay, phone timber yards etc you should be able to get a builders bag of offcuts for £10-£15, beware tanalised). Also, try leaving more time to Bung bigger logs on after lighting kindling/small logs or more time before closing the door/air. Also logs need air so standing on end or balancing on top works better. I find that some days it’s a struggle to light and keep lit, other days it’ll happen dead easy, I’ve often wondered if it’s to do with wind, weather, humidity, temp dif inside/outside, whatever, improving the draw.
Also I’ve found a flue temp gauge useful, they are good for confirming when the logs are properly going rather than just lots of bluff from paper, card and kindling. Also use mine to indicate when I need to chuck another log in. Although, my stove is small and steel, their usefulness might be different for your type of stove ie big and castiron.