wheels have popped onto the rim but they arnt 100%
do you think the tyres have just stretched over time?
No. You’ve not mounted them correctly. They will be wobbly until they’re seated on the bead. If you dont seat them properly, you’ll start to wear through the sidewall with the rim, and eventually the tyre will split.
If they’re not popping on the rim with a tube, there’s too much friction on the rim bed, for the tyre to move across. Neat fairy liquid on rim bed will help, if you’ve not used it neat or on the bed, give it a go.