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  • Why can't some folk take responsibility for their own actions….
  • phil.w
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    Toys19 – do you realise that insurance claims are not ‘free money’ and that such claims are responsible for the constant premium increases we all experience.

    with this in mind could you explain why you think she is deserving of an insurance payout for something that is clearly her fault? (whether the policy holder was encouraging the claim or not).

    Bikingcatastrophe
    Free Member

    To be honest I can’t really see what your point is here Toys? She did something of her own volition, it went wrong. Although it is a desperately sad situation I think Convert has a point in raising the question about what she thinks she is due and why it is someone elses fault? I don’t see his point being callous or heartless. It is just a sad reflection of life that sometimes the consequences of our actions are pretty minor (bump, bruise, cut, embarrasment) but occasionaly they can be devastating or tragic as in this case. But that doesn’t make it right to expect someone else to pay out a huge wad of cash to you just to make your life a little easier.

    BruceM
    Free Member

    Out of interest Toys19, what is your position on this?
    Should she have been allowed to successfully sue the Owner for £6m?

    I am making the Assumption the Owner’s insurance was some type Liability insurance (which seems a safe assumption imo). Even if your assumption about the Owner wanting the insurance to payout is correct, does that make it acceptable?

    My own opinion is that if the Owner wasn’t in someway responsible/liable then the insurance company doesn’t have to pay. If he wants to help the girl financially that’s his choice to do out of his own pocket. Trying to fix an insurance payout would be fraudulent.

    hora
    Free Member

    duplicate post.

    hora
    Free Member

    toys19 if someone came into your house drunk and decided to slide down your banister ending up with them breaking their leg. Do you think it’d be right for them to sue you?

    This reminds me of Llandegla being sued by someone who fell off his bike whilst wheeling in the carpark.

    Or possibly the person who sued the local council for falling off his bike due to the state of the Bridleway.

    Speaking of which, you aint that fella who twice sued a University/College when he tripped over in their carpark? What was his name on here now- he disappeared when people cottoned onto the fact it was his second claim against the Uni.

    Zaskar wasn’t it?

    toys19
    Free Member

    Toys19 – do you realise that insurance claims are not ‘free money’ and that such claims are responsible for the constant premium increases we all experience.

    Yes this is the same as it’ll cost the taxpayer for her foolish actions. So I’ll ask the question again, do you personally find these insurance costs crippling?

    michaelbowden
    Full Member

    Toys19

    What did the home owner do wrong, that they should be compensating her for? How is it their fault that an adult saw a swimming pool, assumed it was deep enough to dive in to and then hurt herself?

    Should local councils be sued when people go ‘tomb stoning’ and injure themselves in a similar way?

    Can I sue the Hurtwood Estate next time I wash out on a wet tree root, for not putting the trails out of bounds after the rain?

    Don’t get me wrong, I feel very sorry for her, but she made a bad decision. Not the home owner

    toys19
    Free Member

    toys19 if someone came into your house drunk and decided to slide down your banister ending up with them breaking their leg. Do you think it’d be right for them to sue you?

    Perhaps you can think of a better comparable example, as this isn’t exactly tragic like being paralysed is it.

    hora
    Free Member

    Its someone not in full control of themselves acting irresponsibly?

    The only claim that she had in my eyes was the fact that she was invited into the house (albeit not by the home owner).

    michaelbowden
    Full Member

    toys19 if someone came into your house drunk and decided to slide down your banister ending up with them breaking their leg. Do you think it’d be right for them to sue you?

    Perhaps you can think of a better comparable example, as this isn’t exactly tragic like being paralysed is it.

    The fact that she is paralysed is terrible. But the point of fault/blame is the same regardless of the severity of the consequences

    toys19
    Free Member

    Like I said previously you have all persuaded me now, thanks, Chapeau. I was wrong.

    FunkyDunc
    Free Member

    “Perhaps you can think of a better comparable example, as this isn’t exactly tragic like being paralysed is it.”

    Come on you cant have double standards! You could certainly end up paralysed and without working tackle if theres a nob on the end of the bannister!

    phil.w
    Free Member

    I’ll ask the question again, do you personally find these insurance costs crippling?

    is that crippling literally or figuratively?

    hora
    Free Member

    The fact that she is paralysed is terrible. But the point of fault/blame is the same regardless of the severity of the consequences

    I agree totally.

    We’ve all done some pretty daft things when we were younger. Sadly this young lady didn’t 🙁

    toys19
    Free Member

    phil.w – Member
    I’ll ask the question again, do you personally find these insurance costs crippling?
    is that crippling literally or figuratively?

    Well this is my point, I would ask you to compare yours/converts outrage at having to pay more tax/insurance versus being crippled. Which is what you all seem to have a problem with.

    I don’t think the owner should have to pay out personally, and I don’t agree with insurance fraud but I don’t object to her trying to claim on his insurance. (which is what the court case would really have been about) if he didn’t have insurance than I’ll put money on it that her solicitor would have advised her not to continue.

    cynic-al
    Free Member

    LOL convert I had to copy toys’ post to see if he’d said Al or AI…anyway experimenting on you might be fun! are you hot? pics?

    Here’s what I am taking from this thread:

    1. NO ONE here knows whether the hospital has any blame for her condition.
    2. yet MOST here have already formed strong opinions about it…
    3. …giving more oxygen the “ambulance chaser” BS pedalled by the tabloids.
    4. NO ONE here has been in a similar situation and I’d bet money any of them who had would have different views.

    toys19
    Free Member

    I’m presuming that was an Ai experiment, not an aL experiment. The thought of being a mutant Cyinic-al creation is slightly unnerving!

    Only just seen that edit myself. Sort of a carbon spoon wielding, mouth frothing nutter.

    4. NO ONE here has been in a similar situation and I’d bet money any of them who had would have different views.

    Except for me, as my empathic, moral and political compass is already going in the right direction.

    phil.w
    Free Member

    Well this is my point, I would ask you to compare yours/converts outrage at having to pay more tax/insurance versus being crippled. Which is what you all seem to have a problem with

    Where did ever say I was outraged by this. I asked you to explain why you think she is entitled to the money considering it was her actions that led to the situation that she is in.

    And how much more tax/insurance would we have to pay if everyone who goes through something like this was able to claim?

    Except for me, as my empathic, moral and political compass is already going in the right direction.

    On an purely empathetic level of-cause she should have the money. I doubt anyone would deny that.

    But to continue to hold that view back in reality where all other factors are considered is, at the very least, naive.

    convert
    Full Member

    Well this is my point, I would ask you to compare yours/converts outrage at having to pay more tax/insurance versus being crippled. Which is what you all seem to have a problem with.

    Show me my “outrage” at having to pay more tax please. I want to pay more tax, and I want this lady to be able to rely on state support (if she actually needs it) rather than throwing out spurious chancer claims.

    But you have completely (and this does not really surprise me) missed the point of my original post – I would like to live in a world where people take responsibility for their own actions.

    Just an aside, based on the very limited knowledge of the case (Cynic-al has a very good point here – blimey I am his horrendous creation!) what would YOU have decided if you were the judge in this case? And what would have been your been your reason for your decision?

    toys19
    Free Member

    Where did ever say I was outraged by this. I asked you to explain why you think she is entitled to the money considering it was her actions that led to the situation that she is in.

    No where, sorry I assumed you were a hater..
    It isn’t about “entitlement” its about our society standing up for the values it believes in.

    And how much more tax/insurance would we have to pay if everyone who goes through something like this was able to claim?

    I dunno. Its worth thinking about.

    cynic-al
    Free Member

    Oh aye toys, point 4 was not aimed at you.

    Sort of a carbon spoon wielding, mouth frothing nutter

    🙁

    convert – Member
    I would like to live in a world where people take responsibility for their own actions.

    Such as the pool owner (had he been liable, and on the face of it the decision seems right), or the hospital (who may well have contributed to her paralysis, we have no idea)?

    convert
    Full Member

    Al – totally agree (I’m making a habit of this). If the hospital is shown in time to have exacerbated her problem through incompetence I would hope they would hold their hands up. If the pool owner had filled it with piranha and put a sign at the side of the pool that said “come on in, the water’s lovely” I would hope he would also put his hand up too.

    What this lady (or her lawyer) wanted the owner to have done was put a locked fence around the pool just in case she came around late at night to save her from herself.

    toys19
    Free Member

    Al you are the carbon spoon wielder, convert by analogy with the mail is the mouth frothing nutter. I imagined a union..

    Why can’t some folk take responsibility for their own actions….

    This looks like outrage to me.

    . Why can’t she accept the she is due that same state aid as everyone else in her situation – no more, no less?

    as does this.

    convert
    Full Member

    You call that outrage – you live in a very mellow world! I’d call that expressing an opinion. By your standards we are all (inc your good self) outraged most of the time. Anyway, the outrage you accused me of was at raising of taxes – show me please. You are also not great at having a discussion without feeling the need for insult, you might like to work on that…or not.

    Lifer
    Free Member

    I don’t understand where you’re coming from Toys, it seems you’re being contrary for the sake of it.

    The judgement was completely correct, her injuries occurred through no fault of the owner/daughter so how can they be culpable?

    I also agree with convert, I would like more money to go to social care for the disabled (regardless of how they were injured), but believe it can be found from sources other than taxation.

    cynic-al
    Free Member

    Convert, I agree the claim looks ridiculous but I’ve not seen the pleadings and know very little about OLA, albeit I understand it can put onerous duties on owners…

    Toys hvae you any comments on my latest project? My spoon-collection is waiting.

    I wonder where the omnipotent-opinionated-oracles sit on this topic?

    toys19
    Free Member

    insults

    Because I’ve read your posts over the last two years and you sound like an AI experiment with your artificial neurons modelled on the Daily Mail.

    Do you mean this

    Sort of a carbon spoon wielding, mouth frothing nutter

    And this?

    TBH mouth frothing nutter is exactly the image I have of you, I’m sorry if its insulting but its genuinely how you come across. I don’t have any respect for your opinions and I think that you are ignorant of the facts of this case and ignorant of the paralysed girls position and feelings. It appears that you want to casually pass judgement over her without knowing anything about her. Sounds exactly like Daily Mail Think to me.

    toys19
    Free Member

    I don’t understand where you’re coming from Toys, it seems you’re being contrary for the sake of it.

    The judgement was completely correct, her injuries occurred through no fault of the owner/daughter so how can they be culpable?

    I’m not, but I think you have misunderstood what I am trying to say, my fault for not being explicit enough. I am sure the judge made the correct decision in law. This is not under question by me. What I was questioning was converts apparent need to vilify the claimant for her actions. Esp when he appears to not know much about her apart from some admitted playground gossip.

    Steve-Austin
    Free Member

    biscuit anyone?

    thegreatape
    Free Member

    It’s not necessarily as straightforward as the insurance paying out even if she won. M&S home insurance, for example because it’s popular on here, only covers up to £2 million. Even Hiscox, which looks like insurance for posh people, only covers up to £5 million. So this chap could still, theoretically, have to find million of pounds.

    convert
    Full Member

    toys, Fine – now I know where you stand I can happliy ignore most of what you type if I come across it as rantings. Your opinions of me are of no matter but the fact you are unable to express your opinion without resorting to insults does devalue their worth in my eyes (and many others too I’d imagine).

    toys19
    Free Member

    Well I only disagreed with what you said precisely because you come across as the MFN so I thought I should point it out. The fact that you don’t value my opinions heartens me.

    toys19
    Free Member

    It’s not necessarily as straightforward as the insurance paying out even if she won. M&S home insurance, for example because it’s popular on here, only covers up to £2 million. Even Hiscox, which looks like insurance for posh people, only covers up to £5 million. So this chap could still, theoretically, have to find million of pounds.

    Unlikely I’ll bet my bottom dollar the 6 million was the limit of his insurance.

    I’m only saying this aspect of it as I speak from experience of having a claim made against me, where it was all about my insurance. They gave up when they found my parents house insurance didn’t cover me, but only after a legal fight to get disclosure of my Dads insurance cert and policy.

    MrSalmon
    Free Member

    It isn’t about “entitlement” its about our society standing up for the values it believes in.

    And those values are being upheld, aren’t they?
    – She’ll get support for her condition, regardless of the fact that it was her fault.
    – Blame won’t be appointed to someone who is blameless.

    The whole thing is very, very sad. She probably doesn’t believe for a moment that it’s really the owner’s fault, she is likely just facing the future and following up the options open to her.

    cynic-al
    Free Member

    don’t argue on teh internet kids, leave it to the big hitters, you’ll just look like this:

    Lifer
    Free Member

    What I was questioning was converts apparent need to vilify the claimant for her actions. Esp when he appears to not know much about her apart from some admitted playground gossip.

    Fair enough, apologies!

    thegreatape
    Free Member

    It may well be toys, who knows. It was just a thought.

    toys19
    Free Member

    And those values are being upheld, aren’t they?
    – She’ll get support for her condition, regardless of the fact that it was her fault.
    – Blame won’t be appointed to someone who is blameless.

    I don’t disagree with the legal aspect, and I don’t think the Dad is fault. My point was really about not villifying the girl for precisely the reason you state (quoted below) and cannot stand the “made your bed lie in it ” attitude of the OP’s original post.

    The whole thing is very, very sad. She probably doesn’t believe for a moment that it’s really the owner’s fault, she is likely just facing the future and following up the options open to her.

    toys19
    Free Member

    thegreatape – Member
    It may well be toys, who knows. It was just a thought.

    And a fair one, I agree that the Dad should not personally have to pay it, but if his insurance rolled over and paid her, regardless of who was to blame, then the world would be a better place. And vilifying her desire to make this happen is shameful in my eyes. Her lawyers must have had an idea that it might work or they wouldn’t have pursued it.

    michaelbowden
    Full Member

    Toys19

    Her lawyers must have had an idea that it might work or they wouldn’t have pursued it.

    Just because a lawyer think he can grab you some money doesn’t make it right.

    I don’t think the Dad should personally have to pay it, but if his insurance rolled over and paid her, regardless of who was to blame, then the world would be a better place

    A better place for who? Her or the other thousands of the insurers customers that have to pay an increased premium because of her actions

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