Folks,
Do you think I am a rude boy?
Scenario:
Was ordering a PF like the one below for my training as Barista except I did not want to buy online ...
(NOT this website but from one that I will not mention)

So rang the company up to see if I could pay direct/cheque. The seller said direct to bank account no problem and said once money in would despatch next day. I paid for next day delivery by the way.
Went to bank paid into the account on Tuesday at 4.45pm. Banker said money in immediately because we use same bank. Rang up seller to tell money in. Seller said he would check later.
Today Thursday still no sign of item so rang up seller asking for reason of delay as money already in. Did not swear or use harsh words simply said money in but item no here yet. He said money not in ... but banker told me it was already in. (direct debit transfer by the way using same bank)
He hang up half way and later on emailed me for calling him a liar. To be frank in the last sentence of the telephone conversation I did not hear his last word and I said yes and he hang up. So I thought he could be saying "are you calling me a liar" which I answered yes.
In his email he said he did me a favour for accepting direct payment and saying I was out of order.
Question:
1) Is it that hard to take direct payment and to check his online account as business entity?
2) Do you hang up on a customer who insists on money already being paid?
3) Do you get wind up a bit when half way through the conversation the person just hang up the phone?
4) Is he right or am I being too eager to get what I paid for and his promise of next day delivery?
5) Do you think it is a favour if they let you pay direct instead of online?
p/s: is seller always right?


