You need more air in your tyres.
It is simple physics.
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Burlier sidewall/casing might let you get away with 30psi, but on tyres that size, with that casing, at your weight, you need more air.
Plenty of talk on forums about folk running low pressures (<20psi) tubeless but unless you also make note of their weight, the tyre type and the terrain they ride it’s all meaningless. Choose you tyre size and casing based on the terrain you ride (ie: what level of grip and strength you need), then add appropriate amount of air for your weight.
Trying to run super burly tyres to hit some arbitrary pressure figure is just as bad as running super high pressures to use some arbitrary weight tyre. It’s always a compromise.
Even going tubeless isn’t a magic ticket to super low pressures, if you’re a big guy with light tyres you’ll just punch a hole in the sidewall instead of the tube.
For ref, I’m 77Kg (12 st 2), and on an XC casing tyres in the 2-2.1inch range I run about ~30-35psi, a bit less with bigger or burlier casing tyres, but you’re over 3 stone heavier than me…