Had just been weighing up similar options myself recently, primarily decided by the cost I’m afraid to say.
819’s are brilliant, they’re practically bombproof, their only drawback is they are relatively narrow (and of course not that cheap either).
Stans look ace, but are ridiculously expensive, so a total no no for me (rims are consumable items guys, they get abused!)
823’s are as good as 819’s, just more of them. Too much more unless they’re going on a DH bike IMO (about 720g all in per rim when you include the required nipple beds!)
The option I decided to go for is the relatively new Mavic EN521 rim with a Stan’s or Joe’s Notubes kit fitted. The EN521 rim is 28mm wide, 540g in weight, it’s welded not pinned, and they’re about the cheapest Mavic rim available for some reason (I got mine for £27 yesterday!).
Now I love UST, but the lack of an “inbetween” rim to go between the 819 and 823 does annoy me, as does the cost of the bloody things now! The 521’s will be a touch more hassle in terms of running tubeless on them, but they’re cheaper/faster/easier to replace.