when it turns into aggression or violence that is the problem.
It is often a problem for people long before it even gets to aggression or violence. Someone might just not realise that their words are hurting someone, until it's too late, and then by that time the damage is done.
Yes, I think you do need a thick skin to brave an internet forum, but quite often I read stuff, and think 'can someone really be that much of an arse?' Poking fun, bullying, ganging up on people, taking the piss- it's just a sign of weakness, and is cowardly. Takes a bit more thought to rise beyond childish puerile shite.
Personally, I think it's great that Rachel feels confident enough to be open and honest on here. I sometimes shudder to think what some folk who might be from groups which are regularly on the receiving end of 'jokes' must think. I don't want to be lumped in with the hard of thinking. Some of it's just embarrassing.
Geuss what folks? People might be different to you. Crazy, eh? 🙄