My beloved father passed away. 
So relieved his suffering has ended.
Just feeling quite numb.
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The day I've always dreaded ... arrived today
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I'm so sorry c_g.
Not much more I can say - hope you're ok.
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Hugs
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Sorry to hear the sad news.
My condolence to you and family.
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More hugs.
X
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Have a kiss and a hug and take some comfort that he isn't suffering anymore.
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Just remember all the good times - he will always be there for you in your memories.
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My condolences c_g.
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Bugger
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Sorry to hear that,I lost my Grandmother a fortnight ago so i can imagine what your feeling.
Best wishes and big hugs.
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Oh dear.
Sadness, but also relief, quite a mixture of emotions to deal with
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Sorry to hear that.
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Sorry to hear that. Hope he was a ripe age and leaves fond memories.
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condolences to you and yours.
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cinnamon_girl - my heart goes out to you. I found myself in your situation 8 years ago. I prayed my Father would die (he was very ill) and when it happened it was surreal.
All these years on now and I still miss him every day.Big hug coming your way, love bunnyhop XX
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So sorry to hear that C_G *hugs*
There're a few sexy people congrugating at Swinley if you fancy a gentle pootle Sunday...
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Big hugs.
My dad's anniversary is in a few days. Feb 1st. Always gets to me.
He had a long - long term problems. He was glad when he knew it was over. I dont know if that helps, but it does for me and my mum.
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So sorry c_g
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Sorry to hear that c_g xxx
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Sorry to hear your bad news.Just remember to keep talking to friends and family.Take it from me,Bottling feelings up over things like this is never a good idea.
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Bugger.
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Sorry to hear that - take care.
xx
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Take care CG xx. Dads are special.
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cinnamon_girl - Member
My beloved father passed away.So relieved his suffering has ended.
Just feeling quite numb.
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Had exactly the same thing 3 years ago, when my dad died, he was in so much pain, and we had expected him to die a few times,over the years, but he pulled through.
At the end it was a shock and a relief he died, but i still have the memories of him, you have the same, enjoy them as much as you did when dad was alive.
Best wishes and condolances for the future, to you and your family.
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Thank you all for your kind words and virtual hugs. You know the day will come (he was 89 years old) and dementia is such a cruel illness. As bunnyhop says, it is surreal.
RIP Dad.
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Big hugs to you CG....really sorry x
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So sorry CG... remember the good times!
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Im crap with words but my thoughts are with you CG .
Knottie
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Very sad to hear C_G, at the same time hopefully somewhat of a relief to the family that his suffering has ended.
hope you're OK, give me a shout if there's anything I can do.
kie X
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Elaine so sorry to hear this , e mail me if you want a chat i'll give you my phone number and that ride we threatened to do make it soon eh ? x
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Hi c_g. As you may recall, I've just been through this too. My feelings were very mixed - grief, obviously but tinged with a certain relief that the pain is now over for him.
Don't be afraid to talk and be prepared to comfort, and be comforted by, others.
Your references to him indicate that you had a very good relationship. Recall that over the coming weeks and months. It's how he would want you to remember him.
PS - hugs
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Sorry to hear that CG. Virtual hugs to you & yours.
Dementia is indeed cruel.
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project - yes, I remember you posting. It's amazing how the body can keep going despite the ravages of illness. The older generation were so tough.
TSY - could you e-mail the details please and if I feel up to it, I'll join you guys for a bit. Thanks.
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condolences CG.
keep your chin up sweetheart..............and a massive hug from me..
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