Ok.. My lads are 3 and 1
The oldest never quite took to the youngest, our fault in the main as I doted on the oldest and didn’t spend nearly enough time preparing him for the new arrival.. When the youngest eventually graced us with his presence, he didn’t exactly make a good first impression, and screamed every waking minute for the first 6 months with very bad colic.. The oldest has always been quiet and thoughtful and a very keen learner, so this illogical screaming maniac was an abhorrence..
And so now, the youngest adores his older brother, who in turn can’t bare to be in the same space as the poor wee fella.. It’s starting to get quite aggressive, and it makes me sad, and my first instinct is to come down firmly when I see any nasty behaviour, but I feel this is just compounding the problem..
Anyone got any experience of this..? Any handy tips for making this poor betrayed little guy feel a bit more loving to his little bro..?
Obviously there is absolutely no good that can come from a parenting thread, so my flameproof suit is close to hand..