It’s not that the seals leak, it’s because the molecules of gas are small enough to pass through the molecular matrix of the flexible pipework and seals.
The seals do leak – the reason oil in introduced into refrigeration circuits is to lubricate moving parts, (primarily the compressor) however a useful secondary purpose is it forms an oil film on the pressurised side of some seals and helps keep the gas inside.
In industry we recommend that any refrigeration circuit that is going to be idle for more than 3 months should be de-gassed and purged with Nitrogen.
We see huge problems with compressor shaft seals letting by on dormant systems that still have 15BarG of R134a in them.
Regarding your second point – While this technically may be true, it has never been raised as an issue in the 10 years I’ve been working in refrigeration.
All systems ‘should’ be pressure tested when new with nitrogen, which has much smaller molecules than R134a.