So I'm turning 30 in March, and looking to book a function room somewhere to celebrate – inviting friends, family, colleagues from Job A, colleagues from Job B.
Job A is my main 9-5 job, been there over 3.5 years, but will be departing in September to embark on an MSc. They don't know this yet. I've not told them because I work in the construction industry and I've so far been extremely lucky to keep my job. To give them 9 months notice that I am leaving would no doubt influence any future decisions about staff layoff, or indeed may instigate a change in attitude towards me, even though I fully intend to work 100% up until I leave (STW-time excepted!) or at least give the mandatory notice.
So back to the party. Everyone else knows that I am starting an MSc. How do I invite colleagues from Job A without them somehow finding out that I'll be leaving in September – someone's bound to let slip, surely!?
a) I tell Job A now that I'm leaving and hope that they don't consider me for redundancy as work is now picking up
b) Tell everyone else I've invited to "not mention the war MSc
c) Stop worrying about it as the chances of Job A finding out on the night are pretty slim
What would you do, Jeeves?