My son (age 33)is going to have to have a shoulder replacement done. Trying to hold off as long as possible, as apparently, said replacements do have a time-line before having to do it again.
He is fortunate (if one can be considered fortunate having to have that done) in that his is the result of a surgeon incorrectly using a pain-pump when he had earlier surgery, so all costs likely to be covered.
He has found that it’s hard to sort through all the medical information (sometimes conflicting) he has gotten in getting second/third opinions needed. Mrs. Busydog is a nurse who works extensively with several good orthopedic surgeons and that has been extremely helpful as she has been able to use them as sounding boards.
Wish you the best in the process. I just talked to an IT consultant I use today who had a hip replacement done 6 weeks ago and is pain-free and is finally beginning to walk normally for the first time in several years.