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You just don't get it do you.
The problem people have on here is not with your idea regardless of the impracticality of it all. People on here are very generous. There is a constant stream of freebies being shipped amongst the folk on here and there has been a large number of bike builds coordinated on here for folk who have had bikes pinched or are trying to get a bike together for a worthwhile cause. The problem lies totally with you.
As I said yesterday you come on to the forum and generally p!ss people off with your holier than thou attitude and general abuse that you've heaped on people and then get the 4rse when people tell you to get bent.
As a marketing professional (I use the words professional and marketing in the loosest possible sense) you should be very aware of the fact that it's not the message but how it's delivered that counts. Unfortunately for you your delivery was way off the mark, although looking at what you've written, how you've behaved and your general attitude I don't think you'd be able to do it any differently.
If you are what being a "Professional Marketeer" is all about then thank god I've got a proper job and my contact with folk like you is reduced to an absolute minimum. Although if you were any good you'd be working for an agency in London and earning mega bucks. Maybe you're going for the "tallest pygmy in the room" thing as a Communications & New Media Director in Vietnam.
I wish you no malice and all the best with helping the kids of Laos with attaining their cycling dreams but I think you're never going to recover the situation you've got yourself into on here.