Bigsurfer – your springs are probably worn anyway. They do need replacing after a while.
Right, called around – the VW system is not a self-contained system, it is linked into the electronics and whatnot, so complicated.
Monroe do dampers that you can pump up, but they apparently don't fit on the 2006 (although do on earlier models).
So that leaves additional progressive wound springs or inflatable air bags. The progressive springs supposedly don't affect the ride in normal driving but keep it level when you're towing. This can't be – there has to be some sag when towing, and there also has to be an effect when driving solo. If you hit a big bump you'll be into the stiffer area of the spring, and therefore get a big rebound since the damping will be all wrong.
The air springs could be good but you apparently still need to keep them inflated when there's no load or they move out of position.
So nothing's ideal 🙁 I just want something you can easily fit or activate when towing, and remove when not. There are those rubber bits you stuff in the springs but that has to put extra strain on the spring, doesn't it?