Hey, think yourself lucky, my 30 yr old ex was carrying on with a 16yr old in my bed while I was at work.
F**kin’ teachers! 😉
Still proper down in the mouth.
Irony is i was about to ask her to marry me.
Bummer, not good is it. Similar happened to me recently (though only been with her a year, still knew she was the one etc.), and had been thinking about how/when to propose etc… Was mainly trying to build my self esteem back up first (more job losses and lack of work), get a few quid in the bank, and take her somewhere nice to do it. She’s really got into Mountain Biking too, and all my mates love her! Proper gutted…
But, when a woman doesn’t know what she wants, there’s no reasoning with her! You’ve got to accept it, let her find what she wants, and hope that it was you all along I’m afraid. Much as I don’t want to hear this myself, I know it to be true. Strange breed them women folk, but there’s no reasoning with em! Tis why every girl I’ve ever even so much as been on a proper date with I’ve always tried to establish what they’re after in life, cos the ones that don’t know will only end up in tears sooner than later! Though my now ex really knew what she wanted though, now she says she doesn’t have a clue and it’s not me, she just doesn’t ever want to be in a relationship again she thinks!
TJ, my god what’s happening man, I’ve read numerous posts by you the last few days, you’ve become the very epitomy of reason and well structured argument… WTF has happened?!?! I insist you change back to your old self at once…