Specialized Phenom x2 here.
Titanium railed one on my aluminium hardtail. I do like it.
Carbon one on my carbon hardtail. Love it! Seems comfier than the titanium railed one for some reason, but it is double the price!
Like that they come in different widths, but I am medium of course.
IMVHO your arse needs to get used to the saddle, plus it needs to get hardened T.F. up to longer and longer days out, plus germoline (or other creme of your preference) and good lycra shorts, plus good technique for getting out the saddle / putting enough power down that your ass isn’t only held up by the saddle, ALL make a difference to comfort!