Hey STW crew, I’m seeing a girl tonight who I really like for the third time. I want to make an effort to arrange something different other than a drink or food somewhere.
Yesterday when I asked her if she wanted to go out again her reply was “possibly.. what do you have in mind?” . So don’t I really want to just suggest a drink.

Something thats nice and slightly romantic without being cheesey or cliche like giving her flowers or chocolate.

Any help?

Thanks.

I don’t want to be a Miserable Mary, but possibly actually means no. (I havent dated for nearly 20 years)

Eiffel tower.

double

campfire champagne picnic

cook her a meal at your place

Probably meeting too late to go for a stroll at sunset ?

“Possibly .. what do you have in mind” is yes with a tease 🙂

Learjet and a plater of Ferro Rocher.

double

😯

😉

Dogging?

Romantic = cheesy creepy trying too hard

Can’t you just go out and have a laugh ?

bring a friend gender is your choice 😉

Third date rule applies?

The Big Bang Theory

3rd date? 😕

Oxo tower?

Probably meeting too late to go for a stroll at sunset ?

“Possibly .. what do you have in mind” is yes with a tease

Yes…

And agreed lol.

Romantic = cheesy creepy trying too hard

Can’t you just go out and have a laugh ?

Yeah we’ve had a good time the last two times out where it was just chilling in a pub. Just wanna make it clear I don’t want to set foot in the friend zone lol. Pretty sure I’m out of it.. but still.

A restaurant is too formal, cinema to boring and you have done drinks. I recently went for a date to the beach, which was really good!

A Canadian I assume as you’re in Whistler. I also assume she’s not French-Canadian because she’d have already taken things in hand. I’ve never dated an English-Canadian so I have no idea. Something that crosses cultural boundaries, somewhere warm and cosy.

3rd date should be nothing less than the OXO Tower.

Canada, that’s the Oxo out then jruk

Yes you’re right Edukator 🙂 . Any suggestions though?

Third date rule applies?

The Big Bang Theory

Is that rose from two and a half men? I always thought she was pretty nice.. or would be nice in a normal setting rather than the character she plays. If a girl started saying all that to me I’d probably start running lol.

OXO tower?

its a culture reference and innuendo that means to make love to her but not in the front but the rear.

3rd date ? you should be bedding her by the end of the evening or moving on to the next target.

Take her for a moonlit walk in the forest, wrestle a grizzly then serenade her with the lumberjack song*.

*women love Monty Python references!

It could be they’ve met at the wrong time of the month, Edric. Ladies are pragmatic things so being strung along for a week is perfectly acceptable. A meal in a hotel with a provisional booking on a room?

Stealth teabagging.