I'd say my roadie setups are more stable in roll.
Yeah, that was the axis I was testing on - better explanation than mine (so long as you understand pitch, roll, yaw!) The thing is, as I alluded to, I'm using SH71 cleats with pontoons. Given the pontoons are just as wide (if not wider) than a Look style cleat they give similar stability. If you were using an MTB shoe with tread instead, the tread at the sides should provide a similar function to the pontoons.
2ndly, mtbs systems are used in nasty mud. This abrasive paste further wears away the cleat mechanisms and interfaces making the play worse much faster than an equivalent road system.
Yes, but that's not an inherent issue with using SPD pedals. Certainly not a reason to choose Look style over SPD if you're using the pedals/shoes exclusively on road where you don't get that wear. Admittedly (as I carefully didn't mention above

) my MTB shoes do rock on the pedals because several years of use and abuse have worn down the tread enough that it no longer provides full support, along with the cleats being similarly worn with more free play. I still think this is more of a theoretical problem than a real one given that when I'm pressing down on the pedals in use they don't rock at least not that I've noticed.
Thirdly, using a degree of common sense, the smaller cleats and pedals of a mtb setup should be possible to make much lighter than their larger road brethren - if there was nothing in it in terms of performance why would weight obsessive pro roadies not demand smaller mtb style systems?
Well the cleats themselves aren't actually any lighter - the common sense you're missing here is that for performance and wear reasons the smaller cleat has to be made out of heavier steel rather than lighter metals or plastic. My road SPD pedals are amongst the lightest going, but when Shimano made top end road ones, those ones weren't. The other thing you're missing is that due to the 6.8 rule, pro roadies aren't actually as obsessive about weight as you might think.