Avoid Rotherham. Forget the short commute thing for your missus, go a bit further out and have a MUCH better life.
For around £200k you’ll get a nice 3 bed Semi in S11 (Greystones, Hunters Bar, High Storrs, Beauchief, Banner Cross), about 25-30 minutes commute from Rotherham.
The mountain biking in particular is nothing short of stunning. I used to live off Greystones Drive and had a choice of loops between 8-24 miles for an evening ride, which used about 2 miles of quiet roads at the very most.
If I put my mind to it I could navigate myself all the way to Hope using about 3 miles of road – quite possible to have a monster day out in the Peaks without using the car.
It’s a 5 minute ride to Dore train station, which takes you to Hope if you feel lazy or stack it in a big way and can’t ride back.
The Greystones is a good boozer as well – friendly, interesting beers, lots of live music & stand up in the back room.
If you have nippers or are planning, all the good schools are in South West Sheff.
I miss the place. Whenever we go back to meet friends I always take a bike and factor in a few hours entertainment around Dore, Houndkirk, Stanage etc.