I have the stock Manitou Swinger 4 way it came with, which I like actually. It feels kind of like the Swinger 3 way that I had on the 5 and then replaced with an RP23. In my very limited experience of these two types of shock, the Manitou is definitely better for lots of big square edged hits, but the Fox is more linear and has better mid-range support. So I think I'll stick with the Manitou on the Patriot since I use the bike for rough stuff.
Have a look at the Fox DHX air? That's what I liked the look of when I was going to replace the coil on my old Patriot.