Cheapest solution, try the open fire first? But common sense leads to it’s ‘open’ therefore stuff can escape into the room. However wood burning stoves also elevate particulate level in the room they’re in, so they could affect your son (seems it might not from comments above). It could be quite a lot of money to spend to find that out, unless you can expose them to a stove elsewhere.
Or you could do what’s perhaps best for everyone and do neither option. It could be that a stove may not trigger asthma but the elevated particulate level may have other health detriments to all of the family. Personally I think you’d have to be off grid, out in the sticks, with a nearby copse and this is your primary and only heat source for it to worth it. But then options like biomass boilers might trump it in that situation.