Your bike looks absolutely spot on for learning on, as long as it fits you in terms of reach and bb-bar height then don’t worry.
In terms of advice this forum makes me cringe! Some stuff is just plain wrong, some is said with the best intentions but makes assumptions about your ability, position etc, and some is just negative (don’t? Why not!? I started 2 years later than your cut off age and love it) reading how to advice just won’t work.
Ride with others, watch others ride, talk to them about what they do. Remember being able to do it and being able to teach how to do it are very different skills though! Ignore anything mbuk and the like say on the matter and just have fun. If you aren’t getting it then spend a bit of cash on a skills course with Jedi. He is head and shoulders above the rest and really works with your individual skills and needs rather than following a formula.