We’ve lived in our house with the same neighbour for 8 years.
Recently our neighbour began acting towards us erratically, ranting, raving, calling me a liar.
After a while stewing I decided to turn the other cheek and do my best to just ignore her. Now …….
A year or so ago she had a tree fall on our fence effectively breaking it in half. Seemingly this was my problem to fix as it was my fence 😕 I repaired fence and moved on.
Now …. She has a young apple tree growing towards, in fact resting on our fence 🙄 it’s young enough that if it were staked it would grow upright and crucially away from our fence.
As it stands I think it’s broken one of the posts holding the panel in place from constantly knocking/resting on it.
I don’t doubt that this will again be my problem 😡
So given that trying to discuss things like this before with her results in her just walking away from the conversation what do I do?
Write to her? Send my wife round? Wee in her shoes?
I like the idea of recorded delivery that she’ll likely have to go to the PO to claim 😆
Don’t even get me started on her **** tortoise that’s trying to break through MY fence …. I kind of hope it does to see what our dogs would do to it 😈
I’ve been fair, pragmatic and calm with her so far but it’s so difficult to engage her in conversation 🙁