Right, the little lady’s old fella started chemo this week. We’re planning on going to see him over the weekend, staying at her folks’ place for a couple of nights.
Thing is, I’ve had something lurgie-esque all week, this morning a bit more than yesterday but still not massively. It’s at a level (a bit of a cough and the slightest sniffle) that would normally not make me think twice about doing anything (you know, like meeting people or riding or going out or whatever), but I just don’t know what level of lurgie is ‘safe’ around her Dad and I’m not what I should do for the best.
I’d feel really bad not coming up because I wouldn’t be giving her the support that I should and want to give (we only found out he was ill this week), but I’d feel terrible if I caused any problems for her dad.
So, if I’m on the verge of being a bit sniffley, should I go?