So, wife reads my emails & facebook messages when I'm not around. Has done for years. I never mentioned it, just put up with it. In her mind she was "vindicated" a couple of years ago when our relationship was a mess & I was a bit flirty with a female friend on email for a while, all of which my wife read. Fallout from that was dealt with and I knocked it on the head before anything started.
Two years later she's still checking up on me, saying the classic "if you've nothing to hide then why do you care if I read your emails". I suppose I should cut her some slack due to my previous (nearly) naughty behaviour, but it's getting a bit tedious and it's the principle of the matter really. Yes I could set up more effective security on the ipad & laptop so she can't get on, but really I don't think I should have to.
So, if I have nothing to hide (which is the case), should I care if she reads my emails?