One of my best mates had a heart attack recently. He’s only 38, and not the picture of health at all. He’s a heavy drinker, and was smoking about 50 to 60 a day up until he had the heart attack. I think he had resigned himself to an early grave, mainly I think because his old man died at the age of 30, and he didn’t think he’d make it past that age.
He seems to have cut his drinking down a bit, although probably not enough, and the same with the smoking. I try to get him to come out, but he’s become a bit reclusive as he’s spent so much time inside after being off work, and I guess he’s lost his social skills. I’m the only person who goes and sees him anymore as well.
I don’t want to patronise him with what I suspect everyone else he sees telling him he should do, but I am really worried, and scared that I’m gonna go round one day soon and the worst has happened.
Anyone got any experience of dealing with this type of thing?