RB if my bloke reacted over something like that, I would NOT be impressed.
I’m not advocating angry or aggressive action, not necessary. Just show the disrespectful turd of a waiter who’s boss. IE; ‘I am accompanying this lovely young lady this evening, not you, sunshine so vamos…’. By getting him to have to do his job, and carry out a task for you, you are showing your assertiveness and dominance.
And don’t try telling me women never want blokes to be just a teensy bit ‘manly’. Because you’d be lying.
All part of Nature’s Game, in’t it? Males will compete for the attention of females. Like the vast majority of blokes on here, I’d be a tad pissed off this waiter was trying it on with a lass I had intentions toward. Would you want a bloke to supress all his male instincts?
There are of course ways and means of dealing with it. You could turn round and say something like ‘Oh, she’s got your number? Good! Now we’ll know who to call when our drains are blocked!’. Laugh it off, but in a way that other feller feels humiliated, yet cannot react in any way. You gain the upper hand, he knows he’s lost, your manhood is preserved intact, winner!
I wooduv returned at a later stage, or ‘phoned, and spoken to the manager/owner, about their staffs’ inappropriate behaviour. You don’t chat up a customer who is out with someone ffs.
Clarey; how would you feel, if a waitress did all the flirting bit with your fella, then gave him her number?
Would you actually, even secretly, not feel a little better if he resisted her advances, and declined to accept it?