She’s happy ferrying the Beemer about town despite the 21mpg it’d do, and my paranoia that with RWD and it’s “lowness” is not as safe for the kids.
Nothing is economical round town short of a hybrid. My 1.9tdi Passat will do 50mpg avg over a mix, but stick it in town and it’s 30-32mpg if you’re lucky. I’d worry a lot more about economy on the motorway than I would about economy round town on short trips.
As for the safety thing… Why on earth do people worry so much about child safety in cars these days? 30 years ago, before mandatory seatbelts, when cars were nowhere near as safe as they are now, nobody particularly worried about how safe the cars were. These days, every middle class woman on the school run has got a faux by four because “they’re safer”… It’s ridiculous quite frankly! The only time I can think of an E46 with a 3 litre petrol engine being particularly unsafe, would be in the snow with an inexperienced driver driving it. They’re very well built cars, I’d not fear sticking kids in one.
Can’t they catch a bus/train, or even better, walk or ride a bike to school?