Surely in any other medium for conversation we’d be specualting about what might have caused it? Or is the ‘real-life’ forum different somehow?
Yes, it’s very different.
This isn;t some private conversation you are having with your mates in the pub. You are typing words and publishing them to the public at large. There’s a big difference. In the same way that many would be quite rightly upset if a newspaper published those sort of unfounded and insensitive speculations you can’t say the same on here for the same reasons.
It’s about time a few on here woke up to the distinction between mouthing off to their mates in private and posting on a forum.
And yes, before someone trots out the usual cobblers ‘It’s not real – it’s the internet’. It IS real and what you say is read by real people in the real world. And when people post insensitive speculative nonsense about a real human who is fighting for his life in a real hospital, people get REALLY annoyed about it… For real!