@molgrips – please don’t take this as a dig, as in no way is it intended as such. People tend to connect with and gravitate towards those with similar views to themselves, so there’s a decent likelihood that the group of women you are talking to are a skewed group.
In much the same way as women I spoke to when the monster girls thread weren’t phased by it.
Echo chambers and all that.
I would have said “birds of a feather flock together” but I believe “birds” is a word on the banned list these days…… 😆
As I say, not a dig, more an observation that there’s lots of layers to real life, and perception very much is reality. Show 3 people a picture of a tree, all 3 will view and describe it differently.