Could you handle it if she doesn't want you?

ive found over the years that delteting the number is the best solution,so i dont call them when im hammered wanting a bit, 🙂

go out for a bike ride..

Someone had to say it.

Right, I walked up to her door, but bottled it earlier.

I think that's made up my mind really, she's not worth it. I think…

read the first post , scrolled to the end………….DON'T DO IT!!!

Right, I walked up to her door, but bottled it earlier.

I think that was about the time she knocked on your door but you were out 😕

Mine called me NYE 2000. Got back together, got married, 2 little twin girls. 🙂 so my advice – wait for her to call you 😉

As they say, faint heart never won fair lady, but to be honest you know in your own head which is the right choice for you, whichever way it goes. Which will you regret the most? – giving it a try or giving it a miss. Only you really know, not the people on here. Good luck either way.

Not read the full post but she's an Ex.
She's an Ex for very sound reasons.
Keep it that way. She's someone elses "problem" now.
Now please, Move on.
Mountain bike forum or Agony Column in a Red Top?
Good will to all men (but not Ex's).
Move on. Stay off the pop, don't get slushy and sentimental simply cause it's Xmas.

Go and ride your bike and tell us good it felt and not about pestering your Ex unnecessarily.

Life is too short to be spent not living. Hooking up and nailing her senseless is living. Going round and feeling the real pain of rejection is also living. Sitting at home geeking on forums and wondering about what ifs is most definitely not living.

eeee back in't'day we didn't have internerd forums

but the advice would still be "she's ex for a reason". Don't go there. I nearly did once, and I still wonder what might have happened.

But shortly afterwards I met the woman who is now my wife 🙂
That was 20 years ago and probably wouldn't have happened if I had gone back with the ex

Now, where are the photos? No discussion is complete without them.

but the advice would still be "she's ex for a reason". Don't go there. I nearly did once, and I still wonder what might have happened.

I actually did once, and I don't need to wonder what might have happened, because we've now been married for 10 years.

Post break up sex is great.
Clinging on instead of MTFU is not.

End of story.