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Bushwacked - Member

For a little while now I’ve been feeling really disillusioned by corporate life. I work as a business development manager and have experienced some good success during my career but I no longer feel sales is for me. I’m now at a crossroads where I can’t see myself doing this for another 30 years and want to do something else, hopefully something that I will enjoy.

My wife has a job which would just about cover the bills. I'd need to earn a little bit of money to top up the income so a big salary is not what I'm looking for.

I've thought about starting my own business or a complete change of direction but no idea where to start or what do. It may be that this is just a state of mind that I overcome and end up staying where I am once I find I am content with what I am doing (it may help to know that I'm 6 months into a new role where I have to sell a lot more than my old account management job and sales have been a little slow so far)

What should I do?

Has anyone else been through similar? If so what did you do?

Posted 1 year ago #
thepurist - Member

This book is pretty helpful but if you want to save on the reading, google some Myers-Briggs test, do a couple to see where you come out (IFTJ or whatever) then google "IFTJ jobs" (or whatever) and you'll find the same sort of info. You may well find that you get different results from different tests though.

Posted 1 year ago #
BontyBuns - Member

I recomend a book . Who moved my cheese - Spencer. J

Posted 1 year ago #
joolsburger - Member

You need to have a chat with your manager about how to speed up the sales 6 months isn't that long. We've all been there and it is disheartening but once they start coming in it's amazing how quickly your mood improves.

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Posted 1 year ago #
badnewz - Member

Do it, u must have some good ideas from working as a bus development manager and seeing how not to do it.

Posted 1 year ago #
IHN - Member

I think there's a market for a cycling friendly cafe on Bath Road, thought about that?

Seriously though, if you're not happy, do something else. Plus, MrsBushwacked had her 'go' at starting a business, why shouldn't you?

Me, once the f&*(kers let me out of here, I'm off to be the last of the Great White Hunters

Posted 1 year ago #
Surf-Mat - Member

Very similar - years of sales for various corporations. Success (which I had a fair bit of from the start sales wise) was "rewarded" by higher targets, a poor month was seriously frowned upon. Every month it was back to zero again and lots of stress. Also seemed to find that certain managers got a bit jealous (I think) if I did well and made life hard for me.

So a spell of some awful jobs (temping, site work, etc) then joined wife's PR firm and we now co-run it and it's doing well. The sales side is limited, I don't have some tw4t to answer to and our clients really like what we do for them. It's also flexible time wise which is ideal for looking after our little one.

I was in limbo for ages though - sales is one of those skills that doesn't (to me) feel like a "useful" job even though it is. Considered retraining, buying a company and all sorts of options. It was pretty disheartening at times but has worked out well.

You have good sales skills - essential to any business. That's a major hurdle to get over. Either stick to your industry (if possible) or do something you like. Be ruthless with overheads. Don't panic. Enjoy!

Posted 1 year ago #
rkk01 - Member

I recomend a book . Who moved my cheese

I had to read that book before going on a management course. I think it must have been written for the American market, or someplace else where folks need a real simple message...

Best summed up by these two reviews on amazon.co.uk...

Insult to intelligence Thank goodness this book is short, because it is an insult to the intelligence of everyone either on or above Oprah Winfrey wisdom level. I was looking forward to reading this metaphor, but even the authors of fairy tales do not think it necessary to repeat-repeat-repeat their message, which is this case actually fits on one very short page, over and over again. This book could be subtitled: How to Make Lots of Money Writing Very Little, Again and Again

An Execrable Piece of Tosh Please, if you're going to read this - and I don't recommend that you part with money to do so - read "The Spirit Level" by Richard Wilkinson and Kate Pickett first. In a world where we blame the poor for their poverty and the weak for their weakness, this self-righteous, smug bucket of steaming ordure serves to allow us all to feel happy with the injustices of a society where the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. Because that's why some folk are poor, isn't it? They're too lazy or too pampered to look for fresh cheese.

This book is not for people who need help in dealing with "harsh economic realities like losing your job" - you know, the kind that wealthy people have to face. It is a self-serving tome to anaesthetise the comfortably-off from the pain of those at the bottom of the pile. It is Smiles's "Self Help" for the Me Generation. It is wilfully naive and unforgivably simplistic. That the author can put "Dr" in front of his name is the worst condemnation of the educational system I can imagine.

I've had to give this one star. I begrudge it.

Posted 1 year ago #
BigBikeBash - Inactive

I just did that myer test thing.

http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes3.asp

People I am like are Franklin D. Roosevelt, Margaret Thatcher, John P. Morgan, Norman Vincent Peale.

I think I might go and shoot myself

Posted 1 year ago #
Scienceofficer - Member

You're right to feel disillusioned with corporate life, because sooner or later, we all wake up and realise we've been sold a pup. Even if they are educated and 'professional', Its not for the free-thinking, who value their life outside of work.

It took some time off due to redundancy for me to realise that. We're poorer and WAAAYYYYYY happier now, although I still don't know what I want to do.

Posted 1 year ago #
project - Member

Srangely its always the ones in jobs, that are unhappy ,doing what they do, and then moan like mad when theyre sacked, made redundant ,or the company goes bust,all possibly due to the original poster not giving his attention to the work he is paid to do.

Bored ,dont like your job resign, and let somebody elsse have a chance,theres a lot of very talented people out there looking for a job.

Posted 1 year ago #
iDave - Member

IMO business development is a tarted up name for bog standard crappy sales. you could try treating the role as the name suggests. how can the business be developed? if you owned it what would you do differently? Best thing would be to do that for your own business though. Look for a couple of niches where there might be a cross-over. look at the obscure magazines in WH Smith - what do odd hobbyists/travellers etc buy/sell/need that you could supply better/cheaper? can you scale the work so that you get paid for results rather than time?

Posted 1 year ago #
joolsburger - Member

Bog standard crappy sales can pay. I placed a bog standard crappy sales guy this week who will in all likelyhood earn 250k this year.

Do that for a few years, get out and do what the hell you want.

Sales is not some poor relation to other more worthy work and it boils my piss to hear it described as such.

It is stressful and hard but that's what you get paid for.

Posted 1 year ago #
Surf-Mat - Member

Yes and I'm sure that sales guy must be some kind of demi god to those in corporate sales but to many of us who have been there, it's not for everyone; regardless of whether they "cut it" or not.

Sales is essential to almost any job - from actually selling stuff to selling ideas to a team/client/whoever. But corporate sales is pretty ruthless - you always get a tiny cut of what you sell and sure enough, your targets just go up and up and up the more you sell. IMO, that's not much fun.

Posted 1 year ago #
joolsburger - Member

It depends on the company you work for. I guess I'm lucky in that regard as I work on behalf of some great companies.

Posted 1 year ago #
iDave - Member

jools - I know, that's what I'm doing at the minute, 2-3 years then over and out.

Posted 1 year ago #
Surf-Mat - Member

It depends on the company you work for. I guess I'm lucky in that regard as I work on behalf of some great companies.

So did I. Orange, big banks, big utilities companies, etc. Enjoyed it for a while, made decent money, got hacked off with it eventually. Far happier and earning better (we see almost all of what the company earns too) here in "backwards" Cornwall not answering to some jumped up brown nosing manager.

Posted 1 year ago #
iainc - Member

rkk01 - just worked out who you are

Posted 1 year ago #
Practical Matt - Member

IME, You can only last so long in sales, I was a cocky young thing in sales & marketing for a good few years making good cash and full of myslef, then I became a dead weight scarred to go to work as my targets went higher and my productivity dropped. Got really unhappy.

Now I'm in the public sector where I feel I really make a difference.

Posted 1 year ago #
Waderider - Member

Quit. That's what I did in my early thirties when I became disillusioned with sales. Now in the final year of a civil engineering degree. God knows where that'll take me.

Posted 1 year ago #
simonralli2 - Member

I had quite a career in Business Development. Many of my friends are still doing the same thing, and I have had colleagues who have built their own mobile and gaming companies and sold them on to huge conglomerates, making vast amounts of money.

But my own spiritual life was more important, and although I was very professional and good at what I did, I lacked that final ambition to get myself out of middle management and into that mode where you live, eat and sleep work maybe 24 x 7 for 3 or 4 years to accomplish all that.

Last year I started a one year MSc in the areas of ecology and economics, and am now realising that in Brazil it is possible to really make use of my previous business experience but in a much more rewarding sector.

It sounds as if you may not be able to fund an MSC, as it is expensive, but maybe there are evening courses or something you could look at to enhance your existing skill base?

Oh, this was my second attempt. I sold my house and went off to India to learn yoga in 2004, but that all went belly up. It helps to have a very big dream or vision, as things may not always run smoothly, as they did not for me in many different ways, but with the right amount of oomph and get up and go you can achieve amazing things with you life.

Posted 1 year ago #
Bushwacked - Member

Cheers for the pointers and info.

At present I'm good at my job, I have the ability to shape what I do and design the strategy for the business (rather like as if it was my own business) but I just feel very unfulfilled in sales and have no ambition to drive up the ranks into management positions within my company.

BTW - I'm not really bored by my work or coasting in my role but looking forward I can't see me doing this forever. So where should I focus my efforts??

Bit like riding a bike if you keep looking at the ground going under your wheels you're not going to know where you are going let alone get there.

Bascially I want to put a goal in place and then aim at achieving it and I don't see corporate life being part of that.

I like the idea of retraining to then start something I can be the master of - I've always fancied being a plumber strangely enough

Posted 1 year ago #
Bushwacked - Member

Simonralli2 - thats it - I'm just not living eating and sleeping work at the moment and can't see it happening

Posted 1 year ago #
duntstick - Member

Ha,like what you did there Simon........

I sold my house and went off to India to learn yoga in 2004, but that all went belly up.
.........

Posted 1 year ago #
cynic-al - Member

Surf Mat do you not work for a BMW driving know it all these days?

Posted 1 year ago #
ibnchris - Member

Have you considered working for charities? I work in fundraising and marketing for a charity which is basically exactly the same as BD (in fact there's a fair amount involved) but instead of making some git at the top richer you're making a difference to other people's lives. Sounds sanctimonius I know but it is a good option for sales folk who wnat something different out of life. There are lots of different fundraising 'disciplines' too so you can work out which suits your sales skills best. I do a lot of B2B work for example. In other wwrds setting up mutually beneficial relationships between companies and the charity I work for. The pay is also not as bad as people think.

Having said all that after 7 years of doing it I'm looking to go back into the private sector as I'm after a bit of a change. Job swap?!

Posted 1 year ago #
Bushwacked - Member

apparently I'm similar to Ronald Reagan, Pope John Paul II, Nick Nolte, Tony Blair, Katharine Graham

and I have the profile of a teacher / psychologist

Posted 1 year ago #
Sui - Member

joolsburger - Member
Bog standard crappy sales can pay. I placed a bog standard crappy sales guy this week who will in all likelyhood earn 250k this year.

so you work for who, and can you get me a job please?

Posted 1 year ago #
simonralli2 - Member

I sold my house and went off to India to learn yoga in 2004, but that all went belly up.

It quite literally did. My liver started to expand in a reaction to the malaria tablets I was taking. I was misdiagnosed as having yellow fever, kept on taking the tablets and it got to a really dangerous and extremely painful state before we all realised what the problem was. Horrible horrible days!

Oh, and there is another bit. I spoke to a Peruvian shaman in his twenties, a very special young chap called Puma and asked if I should do my MSc. He said yes, and not to worry about what would happen afterwards career wise, since I would not be able to handle the vision if the universe were to reveal to me at that point what was going to happen.

In the end, this chap turned out to be the adopted son of one of the lecturers on my course, which I had not known, and also I met my girlfriend on the course, and getting ready to emigrate to Brazil to live and work with her

But I am not saying the OP should go and have a coca leaf divination reading with a shaman, that's just for loons like myself really.

Posted 1 year ago #
Geronimo - Member

Bushwacked - Member

Simonralli2 - thats it - I'm just not living eating and sleeping work at the moment and can't see it happening

That's the problem I have.

I've merely endured work so far in my life & I can't ever imagine liking it that much. I've never had a focus or aim. The pay has always felt like compensation for serving time at the office rather than a reward for good work.

I don't want to look back at retirement age and have such a negative view of the decades of my work.

I'm hoping for a change of direction that will allow me to feel that I'm contributing, making a difference and actually enjoying it.

Posted 1 year ago #
IHN - Member

Oh, and there is another bit. I spoke to a Peruvian shaman in his twenties, a very special young chap called Puma and asked if I should do my MSc. He said yes, and not to worry about what would happen afterwards career wise, since I would not be able to handle the vision if the universe were to reveal to me at that point what was going to happen.

Ooooo-kaaaay

Posted 1 year ago #
iDave - Member

Simon, are you in Macae, or further north?

Posted 1 year ago #
richmtb - Member

Bushwacked...

I hear you, totally fed up with sales as well. If you figure out the answer let me know!

Posted 1 year ago #
joolsburger - Member

I stand corrected. It's true - Corporate sales is like sucking the devils cheesey bits. Frankly I'd rather be a paramedic but I can't afford the pay cut.

I've often fancied running a patisserie as well however I'd most likely eat the profits.

Posted 1 year ago #
iainc - Member

have kids, change your priorities ?

....but not you richmtb !

Posted 1 year ago #