BTW – might even be worth looking at womens shirts. Certainly primal have a few (less macho) designs that it's a bit of a pity they don't do in blokes size/cut – some manufacturers tend to make 'em a little short on the body compared to blokes shirts, but I've couple that are either a bit more flowery/organic or a better material than much blokes stuff. And if anyone calls you a pansy, slug 'em with yer handbag 😉
(or to put it another way, you may have to feel secure in your own sexuality, whatever that may be – being a beardie, long-haired recumbent rider I get shouted at by the knobbish portion of the population, regardless !)