The thing is that the rim wear argument is really only for those of us (which does actually include me) who ride our cross bikes on offroad stuff that's mtb-like – eg muddy, steep, technical, etc – most people don't so it's no more of an issue than it is on the road.
If building up a new CX bike now, I'd have discs by preference but I won't be going to the effort of changing forks/wheels/frames just to get discs which I did with mtbs back in the day.