So, based on what you’ve experienced so far, and the fact that a top chainguide is out of the question, it’s either a bottom chainguide or a clutch mech to try and tame the flapping/dismoutning chain.
I’d say it’s more that you already have a top chainguide (the mech). Not sure if there’s any top dual guides? But I’ve never seen the need regardless, mech if set right ought to do the job really.
But yep, other’n that we’re on the same page. I can’t say which will be better, though. Personally I’d be inclined to try the clutch mech as that won’t be a total waste even if it doesn’t totally do the job- it’ll still help silence the bike and reduce slap, which is nice.