Really? Conclusively? I think we should all be told, then.
I said I used to think that...
Are you saying it's better to go through life with a comforting illusion?
For some, yes, absolutely. It depends what you value in life. To you (and me), that is absolutely unconscionable. To others, it's perfect. Just because you value truth above all else doesn't mean that everyone else does, or should. We all need to find what works for ourselves.
Of course, this specific infiltration can be found in most (if not all) other religions, as far as I'm aware, so I think it's probably "hard-wired" into the religious virus's "DNA".
I think that religions vary so massively that what you say is unlikely.
Judaism: Based on a few tribes, canonized by scholars and evangelists
Christianity: Started as an individualist cult, taken over by a shadowy establishment
Bhuddism: Started as a cult above religion, but thrown open, without (to my knowledge) a controlling group
Islam: another individualist cult
Hindu: a culturual religion, controlled by social structure (I think, not too sure)
The Catholic church as an organisation is run the way it is run - seems quite different to a lot of other religions. Don't forget that it's only one part of Christianity. Protestantism is a splinter from it, sure, but there's also Russian/Greek orthodox churches which are as old, as are the one in Ethiopia (forget its name) then there are Coptics and all sorts, lots of which go way way back possibly even before Catholicism.
The Catholic church is pretty big, but I don't think it it at all typical.