Why are you using a relay?
Just wire them direct from the battery, with appropriate fuses i.e. 17 amp cable, you would use a 15amp fuse max. Most sockets themselves are rated at 10 – 20amps.
Don’t buy your cable from Halfords, its like buying popcorn at the cinema…expensive! You can run your earth to the body work with a bit of wire brushing to remove the paint and a self tapper, although I think its best to find one of the built in earth points in and around the dashboard, or run back to the battery if its not a long run.
Try http://www.vehicle-wiring-products.eu , they will do everything from the sockets (about a fiver for a 12 socket and cover compared to £9 for a halfords socket with cigar lighter plug, they also do the cable, fuse holders, crimps, the works.