Simples…
Share the commute journey with your significant other.
Have a deep dislike for your current job.
Have them have a love for their job, though it's taxing and, at times, they vent like they hate it.
Share the 1 hr each way journey for several years, regaling each other with
1. Discussing the traffic.
2. Discussing how much you hate your job
3. What's for tea (way home only)
4. Discussing how much you hate your job
5. Repeat 1-4
Result, one memorable morning, MrsMM turns to me and tells me to shut the firk up about the job and do something about it….
Go on holiday a few weeks later, decide that if MrMM is to pursue this career change he has to go at it 100% and we can just get by on one salary….
Hope that helps…. 😉
Disclaimer – note – MrMM lost a huge amount of confidence, drive etc almost as soon as he walked out of the day job for that one last time… 20 months on confidence is well back on track and the business, full time photographer, is on target to break even… it's not easy by an means, but it remains the best thing I ever did…