You might already know, but I found FS bikes and big riders don’t mix.
At 95-100kg (in my pants, so add 5kg of gear) I really struggled with shock’s.
Stock fox float was never tuned right, and blew up (Cavedale)
Replacement fox float was never tuned right (even after MOJO worked their magic), and blew up (Lake district)
LOCO got it working properly (abeit with the rebound range reduced to about 5 clicks), apparently the air can blew out the seal seat first ride for it’s new owner. (can’t remember my last ride)
Couldn’t get coil springs stiff enough so that wasn’t an option (although the first two shocks it was the damper that blew so a coil wouldn’t necessarily help).
And that was with a relatively conservative (~2.5) linkage ratio. Basically every time I went somewhere that really justified the suspension, I blew up a damper.