On our old caravan there was a three-way rocker switch, Car-Off-240v. The latter starts charging the battery if the caravan is plugged into an EHU. On older caravans the charger is usually a separate item, wired or plugged into the 240v circuit. Newer caravans have the charger built in. If on Car setting, & plugged into the cars 7N (black) socket, it will charge the battery, but the split-charge relay will isolate when the car engine is off or sometimes if the engine rpm drops very low. Otherwise the car would take 12v from the caravan battery when it starts. The grey socket is just for charging the fridge, & needs a decent cable straight from the cars battery, via a relay. The Haynes Caravan manual is useful for sorting older caravan electrics. I’ve one if your anywhere near Lichfield/Cannock.
If your looking for info try the ukcampsite forum. There is a chap called Ratty, who is a mine of info, especially on older caravans.