I'm also sick of this nonsense. It is becoming like an arms race. I am constantly dazzled by arseholes with uprated headlights or simply arseholes who drive audis which also seem to be part of a dazzle max competition.
I've never thought "oh dear, my headlights are very dim" before. I don't see it as a problem. Its one of those things which is limitless, until we are all driving around with small galactic stars tapes to our cars.
For godsake, give it a rest. Just drive your car a little bit slower on country lanes. For everything else...there's street lights.
And finally...of course your bike lights are going to be brighter than your cars lights. You are going offroad, up and down mountains, across rocks, into drops...i would expect less than 0.0001% of drivers do that in their car.