My other half has a headshok ultra on her bike, older model, picked up cheaply from eBay, no lockout but adjustable rebound and air spring. It's stupidly light and holds air nicely, it's good for general riding and some xc she is doing as the travel is somewhere around 74mm 🙂 Nothing wrong with it, and it works waaay better than a RST Omega from her old bike (RST lower spec models will probably pack up after one winter usage anyway). Small bump sensitivity is ace, but lacks travel for anything more serious. She had a Fatty DD before which is normal spring and elastomer and it did work but not as good, so I would rather have something like a Tora/Recon fork than a bottom line Fatty, lower models also don't have alu steerers so they are not as light as Fatty Ultra.
You also wrote You don't like the look of it which should be enough to get a bike with normal forks.