Longtime lurker, first time poster…
Just found out a few days ago that my wife and I are expecting… Been together 11 years, married for 6, so I guess we're about due! 😆 I must have super fit wrigglers as 3 weeks ago was the first time we've ever had unprotected nookie, I'm a one shot wonder 😆 Anyone else managed pregnancy with one attempt??
Wife is in a bit of shock, kind of wants to get rid of it I think, but I'm against that (maybe a legacy of my catholic upbringing I guess), though it's not religious 'pro-life' it's more that I think it's our responsibility and something we shouldn't shirk? I've said that I don't know how things would work out if she decided to terminate, I'd hope that we'd work through it, but my gut feeling is that I'd struggle… I'm not wanting to blackmail her, but just being honest (I hope).
Anyhoo… I think we've decided that it's going to happen (pregnancy that is), but jeez… it's all a bit surreal at the moment! We never really wanted kids, so this is out of the blue and has really thrown us, but I think we'll be OK and adjust… need to concentrate on saving, will be selling off a lot of bike gear soon as it's probably a luxury I can't afford (currently have 5 bikes along with a massive stockpile/hoard of bits!). Then it's back home to Oz in the new year and a new life (again!)…
Any advice for the unexpectedly pregnant couple?